update guys, thanks for all the nice posts...kathi and i really liked them !!! we said are vows today to each other and came to may conclusions that we are going to see how things go after I leave, I am writing this in wisconsin...it is wierd. We were both sad to see one another off but we were cool with the whole situation and are totally commited to one another. I have an over whelming feeling of confidence in our relationship and I think that she does as well.
If I were to look into the future and say what I think is going to happen, with in a year we will be together and planning our future together, things have a way of working them selves out and I think this is one that will end with a HAPPY ending !!!
thanks again guys, even though I know no one from this post personally it is great to see people with opptomisitic attitudes.
lee