Basics first, ok?
12v power connected?
What psu do you have?
Is your cpu speed being recognized correctly, ( did you flip the little blue switch?)
What are your ram timings?
Did you install the nforce Ide driver?
As for the on board lan, I cant answer that one specificly, I did have the same problem on a previous nforce2 board, what works for me everytime is to remove power from the cable modem for a few minuets, reboot without the modem, exit windows reconnect power to the modem, reboot into windows and now I can connect, may want to try and your milage may vary