For those that have a bit of knowledge about the Birth and Death of Jesus Christ, the reason for the attonment, and the plan of salvation IE: eternal life in heaven after this life, then perhaps you can see this position, that when you die, you do not go to hell, you go to the spirit world to await the second coming of Christ and the Final Judgement.
Many Christian faiths believe in certain ordanances must be fullfilled before you are accepted in heaven, one being baptism. Then, by living a clean and honest life, and accepting and living the Gospel of Christ, you are reasonably assured a very good chance you will be recieved in heaven.
I, for one, do not believe that is possible unless you are baptised in the prescribed way according to the Gospel and by one who has authority by Christ to perform this ordanance. But that is but a small yet absolutlly neccesary ordanance. Even Jesus was baptised. (Please read the bible for more information. It is a wonderful and enlightning story,and easally accessable from doing a search.)
Beyond that, those who die without being "exposed" to the true Gospel of Jesus Christ, and who are not yet baptised (This ordanance can only be performed on earth, not in the spirit world) and have passed away, are waiting in the spirit world now for the second coming of Christ and the Final Judgement. (more on that can be found in the writings of John in the book of revelation.)
Therefor, even though one has not had the "exposure"on earth before death, in the spirit world, one would assume there is an awareness. The ordanance of baptism on earth must still be done for them in order to obtain the blessings from our Saviour, and that is done in LDS temples (baptism for the dead) around the world every day. That is why I linked the LDS page. There are answers and comfort there that I believe no one else can claim.
We will all be judged in the final judgement, and we all will stand before God and declare ourselves. The LDS Church goes a long way in answering some of these "mysterious" questions. I must say, I find great comfort in learning the Gospel from them, and I'm doing my best to be obedient to His teachings and admonitions.
I sometimes lose my way, as some here know very well. But those who really know me from this side of the keyboard, know I am sincere and compassionate, and I try hard to be of service to those in need. It is a way of life I have accepted and truly love. I have led an alternative lifestyle in the past; it wasn't pretty. I will seek the straight and narrow, and with Jesus to Light my way, I believe I will not be lost.
Read the Articles of Faith. That is what we believe in. Sometimes I forget to mention that, and sometimes I forget to follow it. When I do, I apoligize in advance. (I may have already forgotten some of it.

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