<< IMHO, if she has a boyfriend, leave her the hell alone. I hate pricks that try to disrupt a relationship >>
<< your breaking on of the rules. you cant try and steal a girl away from a guy, the bes tyou can do is be all nice and stuff, but the instant you try to do steal her your a bastard >>
Can you feel the insecurity here? I disagree wholeheartedly. If the relationship is true and good, no amount of trying will win her heart. On the other hand, if you are able to capture her attention, she's looking in the first place. If not you, then someone else. Go for it, and let the chips fall where they may. Good luck!