How would you react if your kid was stealing your packs of cigarettes?

neonerd

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I'm just curious....i know it's not entirely right, but i snoop around in my dad's jacket, bag, suit, pants (when they're off), etc, and i take his cigarettes...he's been lying to us for many years about him not smoking, but he does....my younger brother doesn't even know. either way, i steal his cigg's and stash them into empty boxes until the next day....then they go down the toilet.

for those parents here who smoke, how would u react if ur 15 y/o son/doughter started stealing your cigg's by packs at a time, like 4 or 5 packs...sometimes entire cartons.

i found 5 packs in his bag 2day...the day before he goes to oklahoma
 

AFB

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Why people think they can hide it is beyond me. You can smell that sh~t very easily
 

Colt45

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How did you think a lot of kids start smoking?

I'm guessing 90% of the first cig. a kid has is jacked from his parents.. or his/her friend jacked it from their parents.


I'd be pissed off if my imaginary kids were ripping me off, because they aren't exactly cheap anymore :p
 

brxndxn

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Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

 

neonerd

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Originally posted by: Mo0o
Why dont you confront your dad about it

i did...on many occasions. it's also even worse for him, cuz he has diabetes, and it raises your blood sugar when u smoke somehow

last time i cought him smoking, i confronted him, and he said it was a little stress thing, and he did it like once or twice a week....but he's going away to oklahoma 2morrow, and i found 5 packs for the trip :confused:
 

Mo0o

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Originally posted by: brxndxn
Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

yeah, you stealing his cigarettes will just mean hes going to buy more, since he obviously doesn't get the hint that you want him to quit.
 

KLin

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Originally posted by: brxndxn
Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

exactly, you're literally flushing his money down the toilet. It'd be better to have your mother confront him about it.
 

Chronoshock

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Originally posted by: brxndxn
Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

Good idea, send him the message that you want him to stop. Right now its vague. You could want him to stop or a more plausible situation is that you're a smoker and you're stealing his cigs.
 

mwtgg

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Originally posted by: neonerd
I'm just curious....i know it's not entirely right, but i snoop around in my dad's jacket, bag, suit, pants (when they're off), etc, and i take his cigarettes...he's been lying to us for many years about him not smoking, but he does....my younger brother doesn't even know. either way, i steal his cigg's and stash them into empty boxes until the next day....then they go down the toilet.

for those parents here who smoke, how would u react if ur 15 y/o son/doughter started stealing your cigg's by packs at a time, like 4 or 5 packs...sometimes entire cartons.

i found 5 packs in his bag 2day...the day before he goes to oklahoma

Don't flush em. Sell that stuff at school, make some money.

I kid, I kid.... or not :D

Anyway, my mom used to smoke when I was young, but I knew so I never had to go behind their back and take their cigs from them. But honestly, I don't think it's your business to snoop and take, but since you have, you should show concern to your father about the cigs, but don't force him to stop smoking. It's his choice to start, and to stop, you can only influence him, but ultimately, it's up to him.
 

neonerd

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Originally posted by: KLin
Originally posted by: brxndxn
Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

exactly, you're literally flushing his money down the toilet. It'd be better to have your mother confront him about it.

i did confront him....and the thing that just pisses me off, is we're in a sort of financial hardship right now...we can't buy simple things sometimes cuz we're saving money...yet he goes out and buys those $60 packs of smokes....and obviously he smokes about 1-2 packs each day
 

iamwiz82

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Maybe it is a result of the stress that his thieving little bastard kids cause?

<- Non-smoker.
 

gopunk

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Originally posted by: KLin
Originally posted by: brxndxn
Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

exactly, you're literally flushing his money down the toilet. It'd be better to have your mother confront him about it.

well that, or re-sell them to minors :evil:
 

Mo0o

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Originally posted by: neonerd
Originally posted by: KLin
Originally posted by: brxndxn
Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

exactly, you're literally flushing his money down the toilet. It'd be better to have your mother confront him about it.

i did confront him....and the thing that just pisses me off, is we're in a sort of financial hardship right now...we can't buy simple things sometimes cuz we're saving money...yet he goes out and buys those $60 packs of smokes....and obviously he smokes about 1-2 packs each day

You flushing them down the toilet really doesn't help. It just makes him go buy some more cigarettes. You're better off spending your own money and buying those nicotine gums
 

Evadman

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I just put cigarette loads in my parents cigs. Nothing like having a few cigs blow up in your face. Do they still make those?
 

neonerd

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Originally posted by: Chronoshock
Originally posted by: brxndxn
Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

Good idea, send him the message that you want him to stop. Right now its vague. You could want him to stop or a more plausible situation is that you're a smoker and you're stealing his cigs.

he knows i don't...i yell at him all the time about it
 

mwtgg

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Originally posted by: gopunk
Originally posted by: KLin
Originally posted by: brxndxn
Replace it with nicoteen gum or some other smoking deterrent.. But, if you just keep stealing his cigarettes, you're just costing your family money.

exactly, you're literally flushing his money down the toilet. It'd be better to have your mother confront him about it.

well that, or re-sell them to minors :evil:

Ahh that's the emoticon I was looking for, anyway, selling cigarettes to minors is BAAAAD. *cough* ;) :)
 

gistech1978

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i think a certain child would get a stern lecture about knowing his place in the relationship.

and then his ass would be on the street when he turns 18 if that kept happening.

 

shimsham

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your father is a grown man. if he wants to smoke, regardless of how you feel, thats his decision. since youve already confronted him about it, and he continues to do it, then let him be and quit wasting his money (you think he doesnt just go and immediately buy another pack?). respect his decision and be grateful he respects you enough to keep it out of your face.

dont tell your mother. im sure she already knows anyway and its been discussed to death.

besides, you dont snitch on your pops unless hes beating on the family, or cheating on your mother with woman that lacks a hot daughter.:p

edit: to answer your original question, the proverbial sh!t would hit the fan.