how would you judge me?

[Duckers]

If I told you that I want to die virgin and that I never want to have sex; would you call me freak?

BTW, I am not considering to become a priest or a monk!

 

[Regine]

How old are you?

 

[snow patrol]

<< would you call me freak >>

Yeah, either that or impotent.

 

[Fardringle]

I'd say that you'd have a very hard time succeeding, unless you really aren't interested in sex (and I know a few people who are that way)... Yours is definitely not a common opinion, but I wouldn't say that you were a freak because of it. Missing out, yes, but not a freak.

 

[Duckers]

No, I am not impotent ( so I think )

 

[Regine]

Just no sex, or not even masturbation?

 

[Isla]

I wouldn't judge you, especially not about something like that.

Also, if you are serious, rest assured that many people feel the same way. Not everyone is hyped up and looking to hump everything in sight.

 

[snow patrol]

What about lucid dreaming then.

btw, are you serious, or is this hypothetical?

 

[BigSmooth]

You'd be depriving yourself of something that many people consider very fulfilling, both emotionally and of course physically. Why go through life without trying it at least once?

 

[Regine]

I wouldn't call you a freak.
But if you do want to live in a relationship with a person I could imagine it getting difficult for the other member if they don't share your lifestyle.

 

[Duckers]

Why go through life without trying it at least once?

Well, it depends; with the person I love or with a prostitute?

In my opinion love and sex are 2 different things.

 

[snow patrol]

I think with a person you like is preferable. Maybe you'll change your tune when you fall in love...

 

[Regine]

But just sex alone can never reach a level that sex with the person you love can.

 

[ltk007]

I wouldn't judge you, when it comes to something that private its your own business.

 

[BigSmooth]

Well, yes, I meant with someone special. Shagging a prostitute would be neither safe nor fulfilling, and would probably leave a bad taste in your mouth regarding sex.

OK, that was a filthy play on words, but what can I say, I'm depraved!

 

[Isla]

Some people really do have emotional problems reconciling love and sex. They can't have sex with someone they love, and vice versa. Sex seems dirty, love should be pure, that kind of thing.

Duckers, I am NOT saying that this is the case for you, but if you think you may be suffering from an emotional wound that could keep you from enjoying your life to the fullest, consider talking with someone about it.

Again Duckers, I am NOT saying this is your situation, only that you may need to talk to someone besides the peanut gallery here about this.

 

[Duckers]

Maybe you'll change your tune when you fall in love...

Actually, I changed my tune right after I fell in love.

 

[Regine]

Duckers, please answer my question:
no masturbation either?

 

[Duckers]

sometimes

Isla made a good point:
Sex seems dirty, love should be pure, that kind of thing.

 

[Regine]

You're not a freak.
Who knows, you might end up changing your mind again. Not saying that you should, just that you might...

Edit:
Yes, love should be pure. But sex doesn't always have to be dirty. It can be a wonderful loving and pure thing if it is with the person you love...

 

[kami]

<< Isla made a good point:
Sex seems dirty, love should be pure, that kind of thing. >>


but sex with someone you love could be considered one of the most purest forms of love, no? to an extent at least...

and no I won't judge you, but I just may not totally understand you

 

[Robert01]

Reminds me of that line Jack Nicolson said in &quot;As Good As It Gets&quot; (something in the lines of):

&quot;So do you .. uh .. uh .. ever get an erection over a woman?&quot;

 

[Total Refected Power]

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

 

[ATLien247]

Judge not, lest ye be judged?

 

[MustangSVT]

from knowing nothing of u, i would think that you are a super pale 300lbs geek that cannot even get a date and have given up in sex thing, (but happy browning pr0n sites on the net with left hand). that's how i would judge you knowing nothing about u