How to tickle a girl without tickling her? uh...yeah..read inside..

[Noriaki]

Ok this is probably going to sound kind of uncoordinated and frankly I'm kinda confused myself

Ok..this girl is extremely ticklish and hates being tickled (no seriously she kicked me for tickling her, she's not being coy she really hates it)

But the deal is one day she told me that if you tickle someone's ticklish parts without tickling them it's extremely sensitive (in a good way)...yeah ok I'm confused to...but anyhow...now I'm trying to figure out how to tickle her ticklish parts without tickling her

ouch that was a mouthful...hmm any ideas? Lol if you can even interpret what the heck I'm asking...

Yeah so anyways the deal is around christmas time I'm spending a night or two at her place, so I'm working on convincing her she loves me as much as I love her Not that I expect this to complete the task or any such thing but hey it's a place to start Besides I think that bending over and sticking my tongue in her would be somewhat inappropriate at our current stage of friendship.

 

[Sacotool]

Hmm, I think someone drank some spiked eggnog!

 

[Noriaki]

Would that be me or her?
lol...she said it.

"If you can get past the ticklishness it's an extremely sensitive spot" I believe were her exact words

(yes I'm a little obsessed with her and have near perfect recolection of useless things she's said and done that I liked, what can I say I'm hopelessly in love )

 

[Valhalla1]

I say go for the bend-over-insert-tongue idea. jk, good luck

 

[Viper GTS]

"Ticklish" portions of the body can be extremely sensitive to light touches. Not enough to trigger her impulsive kick, but just enough to turn her on. Experiment on yourself, you'll see.

Viper GTS

 

[hubbs]

Does anyone elses head hurt.?

 

[Valhalla1]

btw - I supposed you could massage the ticklish areas with the palm of your hand. part of what makes it tickle is the feathery tracing of the fingertips acorss the nerve-ending-packed skin, driving them crazy. if you apply more pressure and surface area slowly on the magic spot, who knows

 

[Yeeny]

Oh, she wants you to make a move. A girl does not tell guys things like that just to hear herself talk you know. What do you need, a slap upside the head?

 

[BigToque]

You could try very lightly touching her with the tips of your fingers.

I remember in like grade 3, my friend showed me this thing where you can touch your knees with the tips of your fingers and your knee gets very ticklish.

 

[Noriaki]

lol thanks friday...
She has a boyfriend right now though...she didn't when she told me this though I supppose...*scratches his head*
I think I needed a slap upside the head a LONG time ago...
The first night I met her she was leaning on me and holding my hands, and later she asked me to lay down with her while she went to sleep and I didn't think anything of it. I'm a little dense




<< Does anyone elses head hurt.? >>

Yeah mine that's why I asked this

 

[BigToque]

.

 

[Valhalla1]

<< and later she asked me to lay down with her while she went to sleep >>



and you didn't get any? dude... she was practically BEGGING for you to get in her pants

 

[BigToque]

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[BigToque]

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[WetSprocket]

Yep this is one of those times you'll think back on in a few years and say to yourself, &quot;I'm such an idiot!!&quot; That's my thoughts anyway.

 

[Noriaki]

<< and you didn't get any? dude... she was practically BEGGING for you to get in her pants >>

lol no not quite...she'd had a bad night...she wanted affection and a friend which I gave her...I just didn't clue in and ask her out...I didn't want &quot;in her pants&quot; (I do now..but this was 3 years ago I've waited long enough damn it )

 

[Valhalla1]

dude.. when a girl has &quot;had a bad night&quot;, she is ripe for the picking! thats the perfect oppurtunity to hook up!

reminds me of an article I read a couple months ago in Maxim, about how to score with a chick at a funeral. not that I'd go that far, but you get my point

 

[Noriaki]

lol...I'm sure you're right, and I understand what you're saying. But I don't just want to get sex from her. I love her and I want her to love me. Then I'll worry about the sex.
I can't imagine a more perfect ending to that night than I had with her falling asleep in my arms, I just wish I wasn't to stupid to ask her out later.
What can I say? I'm pathetic


Hehe anyhow thanks for the suggestions now I have something to work with provided I can remember when I see...damn pool in her back yard...my brain tends to stop working when she goes swimming lol...thanks guys and girls.

 

[Yeeny]

Aww Noriaki, you should not feel pathetic in the least. The way you talk about her, it's obvious you care for her alot. Not rushing into things and waiting for them can make it so much better. You seem like a real sweet guy, and you should be proud of yourself for having so much respect for her.

 

[JenniZ]

How old are you?

 

[Noriaki]

Old enough to respect her as a person and think of her as alot more than a sexual toy.

I've recently turned 20, though I'm unsure how it's relevant.

Edit: That sounded sort of petulant..Sorry, it wasn't suppose to

 

[yakko]

<< I'm a little dense >>


Lead is a little dense.

 

[Noriaki]

<< Lead is a little dense. >>

Are you trying to say that I'm alot dense, or just an unrelated bit of geek humour ?

 

[vi edit]

It's truely amazing what a soft kiss in the right spots can do

 

[The Wildcard]

SHE......WANTS.........YOU!!!!!!!













WEll maybe not...lol.