Cliffs:
A) Girl and I hang out all the time, I'm completely obsessed with her and spoil the hell out of her. We're awesome friends.
B) She doesn't feel the same way.
C) She wants to move in with me because she knows we would be good room-mates. I thought it was an OK idea at the time.
D) I realize that it isn't a good idea, and what am I thinking? I'd just be hurting myself day in and day out instead of just when I see her.
E) She just started college, is flat broke, and really needs a stable place to live. I don't want to hurt, but I also don't want to be an asshole. Easiest way to say "we're awesome friends but...."
Edit:
I've already boned her. Been there done that. That's how I became attached in the first place. It just faded and we haven't done it in months. Don't think it would happen if we moved in together, and if it DID start happening, then I'd be living with a girl I cared about, who I was boning, who didn't care about me back as more than friends ---- I can find someone better, so I don't want to get myself attached.
Edit:
So here's the decision we made:
I'm getting the apartment, she's moving into my second bedroom for 2 months. After 2 months, she'll find another place to live.
This'll be good cause I'll get a cuddle buddy every night for two months
A) Girl and I hang out all the time, I'm completely obsessed with her and spoil the hell out of her. We're awesome friends.
B) She doesn't feel the same way.
C) She wants to move in with me because she knows we would be good room-mates. I thought it was an OK idea at the time.
D) I realize that it isn't a good idea, and what am I thinking? I'd just be hurting myself day in and day out instead of just when I see her.
E) She just started college, is flat broke, and really needs a stable place to live. I don't want to hurt, but I also don't want to be an asshole. Easiest way to say "we're awesome friends but...."
Edit:
I've already boned her. Been there done that. That's how I became attached in the first place. It just faded and we haven't done it in months. Don't think it would happen if we moved in together, and if it DID start happening, then I'd be living with a girl I cared about, who I was boning, who didn't care about me back as more than friends ---- I can find someone better, so I don't want to get myself attached.
Edit:
So here's the decision we made:
I'm getting the apartment, she's moving into my second bedroom for 2 months. After 2 months, she'll find another place to live.
This'll be good cause I'll get a cuddle buddy every night for two months
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