How to get a guy to stop calling my friend?

amnesiac

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A girl friend of mine keeps getting calls from this dude who met her through some acquaintances. At one point he was calling her 3 times a day.. she keeps blowing him off (she's not one to flat out tell him to piss off).. the guy doesn't get the hint. He's a freak, and even worse, his name is "Alfred." HAhahahahahah.

I'm going to call this assclown and get him off her back. What should I say?
 

rgwalt

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Just flat out tell him that she isn't interested and he needs to leave her alone.

Ryan
 

pyonir

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"She doesn't like you, and wants nothing to do with you. She asked me to call and tell you to quit calling."
 

Cancer12

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Some guy right now is typing on a geek off topic message board right now

Hi, my name is Alfred and I have a girl problem. I met this girl through several mutual friends and we seemed to hit it off pretty well. She gave me her number too! Anyway, the problem is she never has time for me. I have plenty of time, so I call a few times a day. Not too much because that would look bad. But she never seems to be able to do anything. Lately her excuses have been pretty weak and but I know for a fact shes still interested. What should I do?
 

Vinny N

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Originally posted by: Cancer12
Some guy right now is typing on a geek off topic message board right now

Hi, my name is Alfred and I have a girl problem. I met this girl through several mutual friends and we seemed to hit it off pretty well. She gave me her number too! Anyway, the problem is she never has time for me. I have plenty of time, so I call a few times a day. Not too much because that would look bad. But she never seems to be able to do anything. Lately her excuses have been pretty weak and but I know for a fact shes still interested. What should I do?

Ah...so sad...but so possibly true too :confused:
 

pyonir

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"Meow, you listen here boy. You're going to leave that girl alone, got it meow? She doesn't like you, and meow i don't want you calling her anymore. Got it?"
 

RossMAN

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Originally posted by: pyonir
"Meow, you listen here boy. You're going to leave that girl alone, got it meow? She doesn't like you, and meow i don't want you calling her anymore. Got it?"

That would make me burst into laughter then I'd hang up on you :D
 

Alphathree33

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Originally posted by: Cancer12
Some guy right now is typing on a geek off topic message board right now Hi, my name is Alfred and I have a girl problem. I met this girl through several mutual friends and we seemed to hit it off pretty well. She gave me her number too! Anyway, the problem is she never has time for me. I have plenty of time, so I call a few times a day. Not too much because that would look bad. But she never seems to be able to do anything. Lately her excuses have been pretty weak and but I know for a fact shes still interested. What should I do?

**Alphathree reflects on past ATOT girl threads**
 

Jfur

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Tell your female friend that SHE needs to tell him she is not interested. If she really soes not want his attention, she should be able to do that, politely of course. THEN if he still calls after that very clear signal you can step in.
 

NogginBoink

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Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0
A girl friend of mine keeps getting calls from this dude who met her through some acquaintances. At one point he was calling her 3 times a day.. she keeps blowing him off (she's not one to flat out tell him to piss off).. the guy doesn't get the hint. He's a freak, and even worse, his name is "Alfred." HAhahahahahah.

I'm going to call this assclown and get him off her back. What should I say?

YOU can't do squat.

Your friend needs to tell him to piss off. Stop trying to give hints.

<ring>
"Hello?"
"Hi, it's me!"
"Listen, I don't want to talk to you. Stop calling me." <click>

Repeat as necessary.

Any polite words, apologies, or escape routes he can use put into the above conversation will not have the desired effect. Stick to the script.
 

diskop

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It sounds to me like you're interested in your friend yourself. I would make a move, and once you do the guy will stop calling. :)