How to ask out the woman that cuts my hair... :D --update:failure

[element]

Originally posted by: Koing
There are no real smooth ways. Its just in the way you carry yourself and how you speak. If she likes the look of you/ thinks your cute/ intesting then she'll slip you in to her plans. If she doesn't like you then its a no go.

Just ask her name next time if you don't know then just ask if shes doing anything on Sunday or Saturday.

I almost read that as "then she'll slip you in to her pants."

 

[rh71]

Ask her to make housecalls.

 

[alkemyst]

Asking out anyone in the service industry is hard since they are playing up to you to begin with (if they are good at customer service).

I am a talker, so it makes it even harder....I have found asking some open-ended questions during the 'cuts' can let you know if she is interested. It's a delicate thing though and I don't know how to explain it, but if she is interested she will 'close' the questions sort of. Maybe something like "It's so hard to meet a cool lady lately, where are places someone like you hangs out?" I don't know if I'd use that but that's a perfect example....throw in a compliment and a question, see if she bites....if she is interested and knows you are looking, she will hint at herself more than likely.

I would ask her to a lunch regardless, it's an easier ordeal for a woman (or man), you know you have to be back at work so there is no wonder what happens after we eat.....

That said I don't know if I'd date a hair dresser from my experience....they seem either the marriage minded/commitment type or total party girls nothing in between like dating and gettng to know each other first for a long time for an eventual commitment...not trying to stereotype all of them, but in my experience that is what I found.

 

[optimistic]

Don't wait until your next haircut, go in TOMORROW and ask her out then. It's better that you're not there 'for a hair cut,' she'll know you're there 'just for her.' Plus there's no risk of losing any ears🙂 And it's nice to keep the client / dating thing separate.

Take my advice, don't wait till your in the chair again. Just visit her at work and ask her out!

 

[optimistic]

Originally posted by: alkemyst

I would ask her to lunch regardless, it's an easier ordeal for a woman (or man), you know you have to be back at work so there is no wonder what happens after we eat.....

This is a good idea.

 

[Rufio]

i have an idea. go back and collect all the hair that she cuts off u, and make a special hair doll for her. she will love it!

 

[Soybomb]

Originally posted by: optimistic
Don't wait until your next haircut, go in TOMORROW and ask her out then. It's better that you're not there 'for a hair cut,' she'll know you're there 'just for her.' Plus there's no risk of losing any ears🙂 And it's nice to keep the client / dating thing separate.

Take my advice, don't wait till your in the chair again. Just visit her at work and ask her out!

Someone else pointed out too that she remembered my name and even said she liked my new shoes when I got up so thats not a bad sign either.

Why not wait? The whole problem with going in is that there is a little sign in form at the front desk you put your name on to get in line. It would be weird to interrupt someone haircut and ask if I could talk to her for a minute outside or something 😀 Besides its just a sudden "wanna' go do something. I think it would look alot better to wait a few weeks unless you know a good way to ask her that won't look crazy and put her on the spot🙂 I could go in and try to buy some hair care product but I bought some last night and if she's busy and someone else isn't I still wouldn't get to talk to her.

edit: besides it might be best to wait so when I'm in the chair I can inquire more about the magically appearing ring.....

 

[crisp82]

Procrastination is the thief of time.......or so my teachers used to tell me

She sounds like a nice girl, but the problem with nice girls is that there are fewer then the not-so-nice-ones, and as such, get 'snapped' up quick. If you like her as much as you seem to (and by posting here it MUST be alot 🙂 ) try to see her as soon as you can. Make it look casual and just be polite and ask her for a coffee or lunch.

Think about how bad you would feel if you went to ask her out only to find someone beat you too it by a day or week or so......

Good Luck

 

[slikmunks]

so how many haircuts are you going to get in the span of a week...???

 

[stormbv]

My hair stylist is SUCH a milf. That is all.

 

[Rufio]

are u one of those guys who can order a new gadget in the mail, and then wait a long time to open it?

if not, then don't wait with her! Go ask her out!

 

[Soybomb]

Originally posted by: slikmunks
so how many haircuts are you going to get in the span of a week...???

I wish 2 😉

I still just can't come up with any approach now thats now awkward because of her work environment if not even a little creepy. Sit in the mall on a bench by the shop until she leaves for lunch or something? I think thats too weird.

 

[Rufio]

go buy an afro wig. wear it. make sure to cover your face to disguise your self. then go in and wait for a haircut.

then have her cut your afro.
then be a pimp and reveal yourself!

she will definitely fall for that!

 

[crisp82]

go get her tiger 😀