Originally posted by: johnjbruin
There is a touch of arrogance in your talk. By reading your post I get the feeling that you believe "I am the sh!t" and everybody else is just whatever.
There are a lot of people who have achieved the same as you have... but arrogance never pays off.
I do congratulate you on achieving so much and having good relationships with people. Your adivce is good, but you need to find a more humble way of saying it.
i'm going to have to agree with my fellow bruin here.
his entire starting post is basically...
try really hard, never give up and make lots of friends. scratch someone else's back and they will scratch yours blah blah blah.
gee... thats pretty basic stuff, im sure basically everyone here can do that yet we are not making $101000 a year
i especially do not like #2. let the jobs find you. reading that brought on seething anger and hatred. its amazing what mere words can do.
please tell that to the millions of unemployed or people with crummy jobs that they do not like (one example me). i dare you to do it. just do it in front of their face. and you will not want a new g35. you'll want a new face after it gets bashed in. if you sat there and talked about yourself as you did in your post safely behind your computer at say a bar with a few of us less fortunate ATers, i'd guarantee you it would hurt.
anyhow, i went to ucla, i majored in cs too. i'd have to say that most of this "success" thing relies on the try hard, never give up, make friends mantra BUT it invovles luck and being in the right place at the right time. i would say that i am not successful. but i keep trying, its bound to happen. he also says make friends. i have lots of friends, they are not the type that get me financial success. if i had to make friends with a certain type of person who i normally would not be friends with well that would not really be a friend it'd be more like a business contact that i am friendly to. exactly what he said it was not. fairly simple logic.
it is obvious that to have friends who will get you place, you will need to either pretend to be friends, or naturally be friends with this type of person. so i challenge you to this. make me into mr. money bags like you. seriously, i'm a very smart guy and i have friends and i try hard, if you're formula works well i'd like to be the guinea pig.
its funny i came across this thread searching for "g35" since i plan to buy one too.
so here is my g35 advice for you
wait until september. buy the 2005. all new interior. revised seats, new moldings and buttons etc. should be better if the improvements for the 2005 altima photos are any indication of nissan's newfound commitement to interiors after years of being bashed about it , then the new g35 interior will be pretty nice.
assuming you live in socal dont get the awd. it weighs 300 pounds more, and thats just $2000 wasted. assuming it doesntt rain like today everyday that is. you could buy a nav or something instead with the money. or simply paypal me the $2000 at
hwee@pobox.com
i too can afford at g35 right out of college. all it took was working and continuing to work at demeaning really crummy IT jobs, living at home, and years of work selling expensive liquidated computer parts on ebay. oh as well as not going to a school that costs $30000 a year in tuition and board. however, a g35 though a great car, is not a ferrari, i'd say most people if they really put their mind to buying one, and that being the sole priority of their life, could figure out a way to get one.
in closing, you are not that special. lucky yes. special no. better than us no. condescending yes.