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How soon would you tell someone you love them?

BlueWeasel

BlueWeasel

Lifer
This is a topic that my friends and I have talked about during our numerous relationships. Obviously, the amount of time is not set in stone, but I like to think of it as a bare minimum in getting to know someone. I have know couples to start saying "I love you" just a couple weeks into the relationship. Far too quickly me thinks...

I think 2 months is a reasonable time -- in my experience that's enough time to know alot about the person and are sincere in your feelings.

 
As soon as you're comfortable doing so. I told my wife I loved her pretty soon after we got together as a couple, but your mileage may vary. I agree that you need to get to know the person before you can really say "I love you" and mean it.
 
Originally posted by: Encryptic
As soon as you're comfortable doing so. I told my wife I loved her pretty soon after we got together as a couple, but your mileage may vary. I agree that you need to get to know the person before you can really say "I love you" and mean it.
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I agree.

My girlfriend actually told me she loved me first, maybe about a week after we met. But I had no problem saying it back.

We probably say it a dozen times a day, even to this day. 🙂 It's a great feeling when it really means something.

 
If you question telling them, I wouldn't. When you love someone, you will know it and it will be said.
 
save the L- Bomb for when your in trouble with her.... like if she catches you cheating, and wants to break up with you... then drop the L-bomb.... and blam, watch her melt
 
Originally posted by: biffbacon
save the L- Bomb for when your in trouble with her.... like if she catches you cheating, and wants to break up with you... then blam drop the L-bomb.... and watch her melt
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This player knows what he is talking about!!
 
In my last relationship I started saying it within a few weeks. I'd guess she said it back within a week from that point...

Wish I never had...
 
i don't know about you but I have a very high standard for using the word love....

my ex and i had a 15 month relationshpi and we never said i love you... and don't get me wrong, we were Very serious.. it's just that we wanted those three words to be truly justified when used.
 
my and my ex started saying it after 3-4 weeks. She started first, as a joke, and when I had no problem saying it back, it took off from there. 2 years of blissful happiness ensued. *sighs*


<--- single now 😱
 
Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
i don't know about you but I have a very high standard for using the word love.... my ex and i had a 15 month relationshpi and we never said i love you... and don't get me wrong, we were Very serious.. it's just that we wanted those three words to be truly justified when used.
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So you are like an "I Love You" virgin? Interesting.
 
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Originally posted by: biffbacon
save the L- Bomb for when your in trouble with her.... like if she catches you cheating, and wants to break up with you... then blam drop the L-bomb.... and watch her melt
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This player knows what he is talking about!!
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thanks tommy....
 
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
i don't know about you but I have a very high standard for using the word love.... my ex and i had a 15 month relationshpi and we never said i love you... and don't get me wrong, we were Very serious.. it's just that we wanted those three words to be truly justified when used.
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So you are like an "I Love You" virgin? Interesting.
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what's more sad is that.. we got carried away and had sex but never ended up saying i love you..

now That hurts.... not physically virgin yet "i love you" virgin... 🙁
 
you say it the morning you wake up with the person in the room with you......and a sticky/wet spot on the bed 😀
 
Those are powerful words and shouldn't be used lightly. It's best to use them very sparingly such as in situations where you've already had sex with the other person but are at risk of them cutting it off if you don't say it, or as part of a self-defense mechanism, as previously stated, where you've been caught doing some dirty deed and you need to sucker-punch the relationship back on track.

😉
 
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