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HOW RUDE

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saturnine

Golden Member
[begin rant]

if you take the time to send a PM, take the time to bump.

if someone takes the time to send you a PM, esp. with an offer BE SO KIND AS TO REPLY !!!!

how rude have we become?

[/end rant]

have i set my expectations to high?

Update: 6/24/04
I was blowing up because I had made several offers to either sell or buy and I was getting no response. Im in the service industry, computer support, and I know that even a simple reply to someone's message can go a long way.

OFFER
"Hey! I have a modem that might fit your needs. It's a 56k v.90 and I'll ship it to you for 10.00"

REPLY
"Dude! I really like the modem your selling. I'm looking at another one and if the deal falls through, I'll get back to you."

or

REPLY
"Thanks for the offer, I have already found one!"


Have we become so disengaged with communicating over the internet that simple pleasantries don't apply?
 
I've quit replying to lowball offers
in fact, sometimes i even add lowballers to my ignore list :\
 
have i set my expectations to high?

probably, I always put "if you pm, then bump", but I check my pm's at least twice a day anyway when I have stuff for sale.
 
There are quite a few of you out there. Others have gone to extreme measures, IMO, ignoring PMs if no bump is given even *if* the offer is at or near the asking price.

PMing w/o bump & lowballing are 2 completely different things, please don't confuse the 2.
 
I never understood why someone has to bump for you if they read your thread or pm you. Then again I don't buy from forum members.
 
I always reply to my PMs in my FS/FT thread, but any PMs about my post in the Freebies thread (where I said 8RDA+ ACCESSORIES not the frickin' motherboard) I have begun to ignore.

I also dislike the fact that some people (not sure if it was here) won't reply to PM unless you bump their thread.
 
why do they have to bump a thread if they've already sent a PM?

If I see something I want on FS/FT and the seller says PM is a viable means of communication, then I will PM him an offer. Will I bump? Maybe, maybe not, but there's no requirement that a PM must be accompanied with a bump.
 
i typically bump when i PM....but if that thread is already on the first or 2nd page i don't bother

if i don't get a reply, i bump saying "sent you PM, no reply...WTF tardsnack?!?"
 
Let's say that someone is selling an item for $100. I pm him and offer $80.

If I bump it, there's a chance that someone else will see it and possibly offer more. So, I see no point in that.

If I'm offering full price, then the deal is over. And again, no reason to bump it.

If my offer falls through, then I (usually) go back and bump the thread.


If the seller has a prerequisite to bump their thread, then I don't bother with it at all. I hardly want to deal with someone who is that uptight about something so trivial.
 
a response is never "required." a lot of the better traders do try to respond, but i never acknowledge a pathetically low lowball.

bumps are also not required. i avoid all threads that require a bump. it's those kind of people who don't deserve to have their PM's responded to in the first place.
 
Originally posted by: Wingznut
Let's say that someone is selling an item for $100. I pm him and offer $80.

If I bump it, there's a chance that someone else will see it and possibly offer more. So, I see no point in that.

If I'm offering full price, then the deal is over. And again, no reason to bump it.

If my offer falls through, then I (usually) go back and bump the thread.


If the seller has a prerequisite to bump their thread, then I don't bother with it at all. I hardly want to deal with someone who is that uptight about something so trivial.
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i wouldn't want to deal with anyone that uptight either, but theres nothing wrong with requesting that people bump when they PM

I've had traders complain about me overpacking...even though i shipped for free
"god there's gotta be 5 pounds of peanuts in that box"
:|
nothing like getting a PC shipped in box with some newspaper
and a monitor shipped in a box with a sheet of bubble wrap
 
Originally posted by: Wingznut
Let's say that someone is selling an item for $100. I pm him and offer $80.

If I bump it, there's a chance that someone else will see it and possibly offer more. So, I see no point in that.

If I'm offering full price, then the deal is over. And again, no reason to bump it.

If my offer falls through, then I (usually) go back and bump the thread.


If the seller has a prerequisite to bump their thread, then I don't bother with it at all. I hardly want to deal with someone who is that uptight about something so trivial.
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that sounds exceptionally fair.
 
Originally posted by: Wingznut
Let's say that someone is selling an item for $100. I pm him and offer $80.

If I bump it, there's a chance that someone else will see it and possibly offer more. So, I see no point in that.

If I'm offering full price, then the deal is over. And again, no reason to bump it.

If my offer falls through, then I (usually) go back and bump the thread.


If the seller has a prerequisite to bump their thread, then I don't bother with it at all. I hardly want to deal with someone who is that uptight about something so trivial.
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That's my philosophy.
 
Originally posted by: jntdesign
Originally posted by: Wingznut
Let's say that someone is selling an item for $100. I pm him and offer $80.

If I bump it, there's a chance that someone else will see it and possibly offer more. So, I see no point in that.

If I'm offering full price, then the deal is over. And again, no reason to bump it.

If my offer falls through, then I (usually) go back and bump the thread.


If the seller has a prerequisite to bump their thread, then I don't bother with it at all. I hardly want to deal with someone who is that uptight about something so trivial.
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i wouldn't want to deal with anyone that uptight either, but theres nothing wrong with requesting that people bump when they PM
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Well, there's nothing wrong if that person were to request that I kiss their @ss with every pm... You just aren't going to find me participating.
 
Originally posted by: Wingznut
Let's say that someone is selling an item for $100. I pm him and offer $80.

If I bump it, there's a chance that someone else will see it and possibly offer more. So, I see no point in that.

If I'm offering full price, then the deal is over. And again, no reason to bump it.

If my offer falls through, then I (usually) go back and bump the thread.


If the seller has a prerequisite to bump their thread, then I don't bother with it at all. I hardly want to deal with someone who is that uptight about something so trivial.
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Ditto!
 
i have trouble getting people to respond at all. i send a PM saying that i wan't to buy something and never get a response. i can only assume that the item has been sold because the post just dies but a simple item has been sold reply would be nice. at the very least edit the thread to show it's been sold. i have to go thru this at least 2-3 times everytime i'm looking to buy something. lately it's just been easier to go to ebay, less BS. thats just sad.
 
Originally posted by: ucdbiendog
i will say in my thread that i wont reply to any PMs without a bump. plain and simple.
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That's such nonsense. I'll look at it two ways to give you the benefit of a doubt, though.

1) Either you like the promotion of your thread and the items that you are selling so a thread bump by others helps you get more exposure.

2) You have subscribed to the thread and you'll get an E-mail notification prompting you to come back over to Anandtech and check your thread and any private messages.

Personally, I won't deal with people who require me to bump their threads prior to them responding back to a PM. I've had numerous great transacations from many great members here. I'll just look elsewhere for those who need me to bump their thread in such a manner.

I've bumped threads in the past. Mainly, if they were traders that I've dealt with in the past. Clearly, they are the ones that are deserving of a bump because they've proven their excellent ability at being a great trader to deal with.
 
Originally posted by: saturnine
[begin rant]

if you take the time to send a PM, take the time to bump.

if someone takes the time to send you a PM, esp. with an offer BE SO KIND AS TO REPLY !!!!

how rude have we become?

[/end rant]

have i set my expectations to high?
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I have a serious problem with people who think it's necessary for buyers to bump your thread. Let's look at it this way:

Bump = Advertisement so that more people see your thread / goods

If I go to Wal-Mart and buy groceries, they are not going to refuse to sell the items to me because I won't call up my friends and say, "HEY, WHY DON'T YOU GO CHECK OUT WAL-MART!!!", and they aren't going to refuse to deal with me if I don't put a Wal-Mart bumper sticker on my car.

Sure, it's considerate to share positive comments with others about a good business deal you had. However, it should not be required!

That said, I do always bump threads for people because:

-I sell items here often and know how much I appreciate bumps
-I subscribe to my threads, so I assume that other sellers subscribe too, and thus they get sent an e-mail to remind them to go check their PM's. It speeds things up.

I'm really getting tired of all this "_______ didn't bump my thread, so they're on my DNT/ignore list". WHO CARES? You got the PM, so you're only hurting yourself by losing business -- the whole point of a bump is to gain attention. So why in the world are you ignoring the attention that you've recieved?

NEXT: RESPOND TO PM'S! I don't care if someone is "lowballing" or not. At least tell them, "No, I'd like to sell this for what it's worth. Look here and see that my price is acceptable: [link to Newegg or someone else's successful sale for $X]"

It really pisses off a lot of people, or at least wastes their time when traders fail to respond. I've seen a few other rants on this forum about buyers saying, "I'll buy your [random computer part] immediatelly. Where do I send payment?" only to never hear from that person again. It seems to happen to me about 1/3 of the time I'm selling something even though I often respond to PM's in 1 hour, and never more than 12 hours...it's not like they forgot about me because I didn't give them a timely response.
 
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