Originally posted by: bamacre
Originally posted by: ntdz
i wouldnt give a homeless person a damn thing besides food...You know they take $ you give them and buy drugs or beer. I even saw a homeless guy with a sign asking for money to buy beer, made me laugh out loud. I truely believe they are homeless because they are either lazy, druggies and/or just don't care about being part of society.
That's a horrible way of thinking.
Some people are homeless due to reasons beyond their control. And I feel sorry for them.
If you do not want to help by giving money directly to them, AT LEAST help support a charity in your city that helps them, i.e., a shelter, soup kitchen, etc.
I once met a homeless man outside a small strip by a University. First he thanked me for even saying hello. He told me he was hungry and asked if I could help. I took him into a pool hall and ordered up a nice big cheeseburger, fully loaded, with fries and water. The guy behind the bar obliged as long as he left when done. I tipped the bartender well for allowing him to stay, and the homless guy had a hot meal for the first time in a while. He was a nice guy, had a really bad eye (I could tell, it looked horrible) and said his parents had abandoned him when he was young. He thanked me, over and over.
I've seen him around here and there over the years, he's still homeless.
I cannot imagine what life would be like without a home, without any friends, without any family. Nowhere to go, nothing to do but try to find shelter and food. We couldn't live one day in his shoes. It must be hell.
If you want to help, find an organization in your city that helps and give them money. One here in Memphis,
the Memphis Union Mission, gives them shelter, food, and tries to help them get off alcohol and drugs (crack in Memphis) if needed, and if they succeed, they help them find a job. They have helped many, many people.