Well, in the first place I tried to tell you that I could have simply agreed with what you said, that your effortful and thoughtful post made very good sense, but I chose, additionally, to put some effort and thought of my own into what I posted back, with the expectation you put some thought and effort into my reply. What you regularly do with my posts is to completely miss the point.
Your posts while generally quite rational and well thought out, lack something I would maybe call wisdom, an inner sense of grounded centeredness I feel your posting lacks, exactly as if you never connect to the fact that we don't really know when people will die, while everything else I suggested would otherwise make perfect sense. You see, I don't so much care about any of your individual posts so much as I care about you. I will always aim to show you something I don't think you see. Intellectual debate is of little interest to me. For you it's safe ground, where you want to stay.
But don't worry that you don't see my depth or perspicacity or devote effort to help you as best I can. I do so because I like you and expect no reward.