Originally posted by: Moralpanic
What..supposed to ask the bride/groom how much the 'per head' is??
Not me...I give based on how well I know the bride/groom, not on how elaborate the wedding is. I mean, an elaborate wedding (or any wedding for that matter) is the responsibility of the bride/groom and their parents.
Some of you guys are really cheap bastards. I would think MINIMUM would be how much you think the cost of dinner is (and yes, you can estimate it... you don't need to ask). Thankfully my parents didn't raise me to be cheapasses, so when we go to weddings, we give both a nice present for their new life together, and money to at least cover the dinner.
