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How many of you still get along/talk to your ex-wife/gf

slightlyhuman

slightlyhuman

Lifer
Thinking about ending almost 3 year relationship...I'm not going to go into details because I hate yagt's. Just wondering how many of you can maintain a conversation with your ex's and if its hard to get along with them after that(ie be friends)


share your thoughts.

edit- me and her
 
Not with a single one of them.

On the other hand, my parents (divorced about 8 yrs ago after 26 yrs of marriage) get along great now. Go figure.
 
i would guess it depends on how the break up went, if its a mutal thing then you will prob talk to her after its over, but if its a messy thing then you prob. won't be talking to her

Dogg
 
From all my Ex's I only keep in touch with one.

My first to be exact. I still love her, just in a different way. All others, i've lonst contact with. My last gf still emails me from time to time, but I just ignore them. I would like to expose her and ruin her, but I'm keeping it cool for now 😉

movies and photographs go a long way 😀. She better pray she doesn't email me when i'm not in a good mood :evil:
 
I have 2 ex's from long term relationships. One I speak to every few months and the other I talk to every couple of weeks.

The first ex, though we've been broken up for over 4 years and the other we've been broken up for almost 6 months.
 
Big negative...

40+ GF's/1 ex wife, only get along with a handful. My personal ratio is ~4:1

However the ones that I'm still on speaking terms with are very cool women...
 
well, we only knew of each other before we started dating, our families are REALLY close, i honestly think we could get back together because we make a great couple, she was my first everything, etc... i just kinda wanna have freedom, not to go eff all the girls i can, just if i talk or hang out with a girl, i dont want to have a guilty concience(sp?) about it. like a friend of hers that i have known before i met the gf wants to learn how to play guitar, i'd like to teach her but im not going to while dating someone.

i dunno, i guess this is a slight yagt but im not looknig for advice.


i need a beer
 
I still keep in touch with my first g/f every now and then. She's halfway across the country .. we swap e-mails every couple of months. I'm with isekii .. I still love her, just in a different way. Still have very fond memories of our relationship .. distance is what killed it. We both left for school and the phone wasn't cutting it.
 
I get along fine with my ex. she gave me a tee shirt on saturday. I have dinner at her place at lease once every two weeks.
 
i understand that jdub02, never been into distant relationships or course this is my first long term relationship too... if we did break up, i'd hate to see us not get along then cause our parents to start a fued too...
 
My ex and I used to stay in touch after our divorce, mainly for our son, but we had amicable dealings.

Then she pretty much abandoned him as of a year ago so I don't really have any kind words for her at the moment.
 
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
My ex and I used to stay in touch after our divorce, mainly for our son, but we had amicable dealings.

Then she pretty much abandoned him as of a year ago so I don't really have any kind words for her at the moment.
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sorry to hear, gl to your n your son
 
None of the ones that were serious. I don't think my heart could take it. 🙁

Before I got together with my spouse, I was still in contact with (and still *ahem* "friendly" with) most of them. When you're single, exes are convenient to have around. heh
 
Just broke up with a girl after a year. She said I was a great guy and she's really glad she met me. Everything seemed to go well.

I called her a week later to see how she was doing and she didn't answer. E-mailed me and said she had a migrane and wasn't taking any calls. I called her a couple weeks after that and she said she wasn't ready to talk (which I figured was her answer from before, but I wanted to make that clear). It's been a couple months now, and she hasn't called. Whatever. I'd say that was my most amicable breakup, and still I don't talk to her.

If you're forced to be around her, she'll either talk to you out of neccesity or not talk to you because she sees you too often to get over it. Don't know which because I don't know her. Picture makes her look like the kind of girl that would be the latter.
 
I don't have an ex wife or girlfriend, but I do have an ex husband and ex boyfriends. I don't talk to any of them! I could care less if I ever see or hear from my ex husband again, but the ex boyfriends were basically all from highschool, so if I saw them again, it would be cool to catch up on what they've been doing over the past 15 or more years! 🙂
 
Well, my ex-bf's I do keep in contact with. One I swap emails with on occassion and the other I actually see about once a week to play a group game. Hehe, the "third" ex-bf is actually the current again.

Granted all my break-ups were just normal with no drama (in other words no one cheated on anyone else). I wouldn't say they were all mutual since I did the breaking up, but with one we immediately were able to do the friend thing. The other took time, but after a while it was good.

Good luck and have fun being single if that's what you decide. 😉
 
i just wish i could put a pause on me and her, go out live the single life with my friends and come back but i cant do that. i wanna end it but then the second after i end it, i know im gonna be like wtf did i just do.

oh well, i might be treating tonight like its a friday, cheers:beer:
 
Originally posted by: derrickperry
i just wish i could put a pause on me and her, go out live the single life with my friends and come back but i cant do that. i wanna end it but then the second after i end it, i know im gonna be like wtf did i just do.

oh well, i might be treating tonight like its a friday, cheers:beer:
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There are the "KEEPERS" when it comes to girls. The "KEEPERS" are smart, sexy, funny, very relaxed and cook and such.
There is this one girl that I met over summer, while taking summer courses. She's already married unfortunately at the early age of 23. I personally don't blame the guy married to her. If she was available, I would've thrown her the ring.

It's one of those chicks that you clinch with the grip of death and hold on for dear life 😉 😀
She comes over every week and cooks me lunch and what not.

If you dont have that type of feeling with her, then you'll find someone like that later down the road.
 
I only talk to 1 of my ex and that is about once every 5 or 6 months. That's cause I loved her the most and still care for her just in a different way.
 
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