How long should one wait before they tell their SO they love them?

[Howard]

1 month? More? Less?

 

[DAGTA]

Why wait? If it is love (not lust) tell them soon.

 

[Jeff7181]

Exactly 13,984 hours.

 

[gar3555]

meh...wait...let them say it first, then if it feels right when they say it repeat it, otherwise, if it feels weird, you'll know to bolt

 

[tfinch2]

42 days

 

[FrustratedUser]

Wait until after you boned her. Gotta get a test drive.

 

[Praetorian7]

42 days.


edit: u beat me tfinch

 

[miketheidiot]

when you mean it.

 

[vi edit]

Risk/Benefit analysis of:

Is getting into the pants worth that added level of comittment.

Yes or no.

 

[Cerpin Taxt]

Originally posted by: Howard
1 month? More? Less?

It's not a matter of time. When you know, you know. If you don't know that you love her, then you don't love her.

That is, of course, unless sex is hinging on the admission. In that case, you love her right now.

-Garth

 

[SilentRavens]

I would say there is no time limit, just when it feels right and when you mean it.


Okay, so yeah I just summerized Garth and miketheidiot, but whatever.

 

[johnjohn320]

I love you too.

:lips:

 

[Howard]

Originally posted by: johnjohn320
I love you too.

:lips:

Let's form a piano/viola duet. :lips:

 

[SNiPeRX]

wait until she lets you put it in the back door, now thats love....

 

[HBalzer]

I'd laugh my ass off if she just responds okay. I?d wait until you have a pretty good idea she feels the same. One sided love sucks anus.

 

[Ranger X]

After she puts out.

 

[shot]

If the person is already your Significant Other, then you should have already said I love you.

 

[lokiju]

2.5275 days

 

[Pliablemoose]

I just tell them on the first date & get it out of the way, dammed if I ever get any 2nd dates though... hmmm

 

[Howard]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
I just tell them on the first date & get it out of the way, dammed if I ever get any 2nd dates though... hmmm

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: Howard

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
I just tell them on the first date & get it out of the way, dammed if I ever get any 2nd dates though... hmmm

Honestly, I would always wait till I slept with them a few times...

 

[monk3y]

I waited around 2 months.

 

[Rock Hydra]

Originally posted by: miketheidiot
when you mean it.

 

[OffTopic1]

Depends on the person. I have had GF that I lived with for as much as 2 years and I can't bring myself to tell her that I love her because it wouldn't be true. My current GF is the fourth day (third date).

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: Howard
1 month? More? Less?

First date.