How long should I wait to call her?

Shawn

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I went on a date w/ this girl last night and we really hit it off. After we got home we talked online almost all night. I really want to see her again. How long should I wait to call her?
 

TommyVercetti

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Don't do it. She will just reject you, and you will feel worthless. Just sit at home and don't call her.
 

chin311

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not today, maybe if you see her online...dont wanna look like your desperate...

you could wait till she calls you...or maybe call her tomm.
 

Shawn

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sh|t i should have waited a few more mins for replies to this thread before calling her!!! well her dad's just like she's taking a nap right now I'll tell her you called. lol that's because i kept her up all night. oh well maybe he'll forget to tell her......
 

ElFenix

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Mike: How about if I wait six weeks to call. I could tell her I found her number while I
was cleaning out my wallet, I can't remember where we met. I'll ask her what she looks
like and then I'll ask her if we fvcked. How about that? Would that be money?
 

Zim Hosein

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Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Don't do it. She will just reject you, and you will feel worthless. Just sit at home and don't call her.

:Q

I'm w/ the 2 days club :)
 

Siddhartha

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Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Don't do it. She will just reject you, and you will feel worthless. Just sit at home and don't call her.

LOL

Call her today and ask her out for dinner.
 

Pliablemoose

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I always knew I had a live one when we made plans for the next date when we were on one...

It's allready too late for you:(
 

GoingUp

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usually I tell the girl when I will be calling her, so I dont have to play that game, IE, I'll call you on monday, or I'll call you tomorrow....
 

I think it is contingent. If she's a mature person, then 2-3 days would be nice. My bet would be three days as a perfect grace period. She gets a good impression of you as someone who gives space. However, if she's not very mature in her thinking, calling the next day would make her day and make her very excited! If you delay it she won't be very happy.

"usually I tell the girl when I will be calling her, so I dont have to play that game, IE, I'll call you on monday, or I'll call you tomorrow...."

That sounds intelligent, except you have to carry through. If you failed to meet up the set date [to call], you would be likely scored low.