Well, I would agree that in general they can last a really long time... however, what you have observed with the monitor getting darker is pretty common. The monitor will literally "burn down" in intensity, kind of like a really old light bulb. The display probably has years left to it, but losing some brightness is typical in older displays. It's probably more noticeable on the Trinitron because the aperture grill is darker to begin with (to my eyes at least).
For the record I have several monitors that have run for well over 8 years, on the other hand my top of the line 19" Trinitron had it's power supply go out right on the 3 year mark, definitely a disappointment as it was an $800 display when I bought it.