How here has experienced death first hand

Neurorelay

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The nearest I have been to someone who has died was the next room while sleeping. I know this is dark, but it makes me wonder, how many people have truly been close to death.
 

Ronstang

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I cleaned up a guys brains all over the back deck after he blew his head apart with a .357 Magnum....close enough?
 

Neurorelay

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Originally posted by: Ronstang
I cleaned up a guys brains all over the back deck after he blew his head apart with a .357 Magnum....close enough?


I would say so; my point of inquiry is the supposition that many people joke about it, but have never really been close to it and are truly afraid of it.
 

Ronstang

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Originally posted by: Neurorelay
Originally posted by: Ronstang
I cleaned up a guys brains all over the back deck after he blew his head apart with a .357 Magnum....close enough?


I would say so; my point of inquiry is the supposition that many people joke about it, but have never really been close to it and are truly afraid of it.

Fearing the inevitable is not only irrational but a waste of time.
 

Iron Woode

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I watched my mother die in front of me from a stroke.

I have not been the same person since.
 

Evadman

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Originally posted by: Ronstang
Fearing the inevitable is not only irrational but a waste of time.

Agreed.

On topic: I was in the ski patrol for a while, and a kid snapped his neck doing a flip on the run I was responsible for at a time I was on duty. Feel free to figure the rest out yourself.

along with that, see the first line in my sig.
 

Neurorelay

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Originally posted by: Iron Woode
I watched my mother die in front of me from a stroke.

I have not been the same person since.


My condolences; my fear is my grandmother. For the last few years I have lived in the same house as her taking care of her knowing that she will pass. I fear the day I find her gone from this world. This is the same house that my grandfather passed in while I slept in the room nearby.
 

Neurorelay

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Originally posted by: Evadman
Originally posted by: Ronstang
Fearing the inevitable is not only irrational but a waste of time.

Agreed.

On topic: I was in the ski patrol for a while, and a kid snapped his neck doing a flip on the run I was responsible for at a time I was on duty. Feel free to figure the rest out yourself.

along with that, see the first line in my sig.


My brother is in the patrol and has seen some heinous stuff also.
 

compuwiz1

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The closest I've ever been, has pretty much been seeing a couple body bags along the road, while passing an accident site.
 

Neurorelay

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Originally posted by: The Battosai
i guess getting a vacation is the closest..

besides my pets passing away :(

I find dead mice all the time and found one of my puppies dead firsthand, but human death I have never been first hand at the scene. I believe that it is a necessary part of our existence but our culture shields us from this pain unlike the rest of the world.
 

Evadman

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Originally posted by: Neurorelay
My brother is in the patrol and has seen some heinous stuff also.

Yea. I dropped because I couldn't handle it.
 

The Batt?sai

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Originally posted by: TallBill
Passed by a person who died only 15 seconds later in that same spot.

wow that sucks. how did they go?

i guess watching a movie like final destination didn't make you feel any better about that :Q!
 

The Batt?sai

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Originally posted by: Neurorelay
Originally posted by: The Battosai
i guess getting a vacation is the closest..

besides my pets passing away :(

I find dead mice all the time and found one of my puppies dead firsthand, but human death I have never been first hand at the scene. I believe that it is a necessary part of our existence but our culture shields us from this pain unlike the rest of the world.

our culture shields us from alot. it seems like liberty to a degree. there's so much in this world, thats why i'm glad i was able to take philosophy as a minor (would have liked to majored in it but it wasn't offered)
 

TallBill

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Originally posted by: The Battosai
Originally posted by: TallBill
Passed by a person who died only 15 seconds later in that same spot.

wow that sucks. how did they go?

i guess watching a movie like final destination didn't make you feel any better about that :Q!

Got shot in the hip. And no, I never worried that it might have been me.
 

Iron Woode

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Originally posted by: Neurorelay
Originally posted by: Iron Woode
I watched my mother die in front of me from a stroke.

I have not been the same person since.


My condolences; my fear is my grandmother. For the last few years I have lived in the same house as her taking care of her knowing that she will pass. I fear the day I find her gone from this world. This is the same house that my grandfather passed in while I slept in the room nearby.
dying from old age is one thing. Dying at 45 from a stroke in front of your kids is something else.

I expect my grandparents to die eventually and so it eases any worry about death.

here is a quote from, The Twilight Zone:

"Mother, give me your hand. You see. No shock. No engulfment. No tearing asunder. What you feared would come like an explosion is like a whisper. What you thought was the end is the beginning."
 

The Batt?sai

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Originally posted by: TallBill
Originally posted by: The Battosai
Originally posted by: TallBill
Passed by a person who died only 15 seconds later in that same spot.

wow that sucks. how did they go?

i guess watching a movie like final destination didn't make you feel any better about that :Q!

Got shot in the hip. And no, I never worried that it might have been me.

was there any warning that was about to happen?
 

JoeFahey

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I went on "The Superman" in Six Flags New England last year, and a few days later, some guy died on it.
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TallBill

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Originally posted by: The Battosai

was there any warning that was about to happen?

It was a training excersise with live rounds, so I guess there was some warning.
 
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Errr. nope.

Someone in my high school got in accident with a friend (car over railroad tracks = air time). Both got ejected I guess. The passenger died in the drivers arms.
 

Wozster

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I died once. Not kidding.

Drowned in a semi-frozen lake; no breathing, heart beat, or pulse.
The hospital was able to revive me thanks to Hypothermia