The longest I've ever gone until having sex was 3 dates.
Usually it's on the first "date", sex is the driving force.
Usually it's on the first "date", sex is the driving force.
Thanks a ton for the advice guys. My date got postponed to today because of some last minute emergency.
I would really love it if women on ATOT share their views.
I would really love it if women on ATOT share their views.
Girls Perspective is that we really cna't answer what the girl you're dating wants.
Im usually very turned off by a guy if they're immediately trying to jump into bed real soon. It was 5 months before I slept with my boyfriend for the first time. (then again i was only about 15 and that was my first time...) the relationships still going after 5+ yrs and i still get peeved sometimes when i think all my boyfriend has on his mind when we get some time alone is sex ;x
I know some of my friends who do still date a lot though and they say if the guy trys to get into bed with them before the first few dates (3 or so) then they quickly lose interest in the guy and the relationship goes nowhere. They want to get to know the person first and make sure its worthwhile.
then again i know some people who if they don't get sex on the first date they have a meltdown and think something is wrong with them ;x
I say go with the flow. If you're willing to go the distance and sleep with her, you should be able to talk to her about it. Maybe shees the one you should be asking.
Im usually very turned off by a guy if they're immediately trying to jump into bed real soon. It was 5 months before I slept with my boyfriend for the first time. (then again i was only about 15 and that was my first time...) the relationships still going after 5+ yrs and i still get peeved sometimes when i think all my boyfriend has on his mind when we get some time alone is sex ;x
I know some of my friends who do still date a lot though and they say if the guy trys to get into bed with them before the first few dates (3 or so) then they quickly lose interest in the guy and the relationship goes nowhere. They want to get to know the person first and make sure its worthwhile.
then again i know some people who if they don't get sex on the first date they have a meltdown and think something is wrong with them ;x
I say go with the flow. If you're willing to go the distance and sleep with her, you should be able to talk to her about it. Maybe shees the one you should be asking.
Originally posted by: FoBoT
why would you kiss on the first date?
you some kind of prevert?
****** that, i had sex 3 times on a first date once. granted it lasted about 2months, more of a fling really.
AreaCode707
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Girl perspective: There is no universal rule, sorry. Personally, I'm a marriage = sex person, so any guy wanting sex during the dating phase would be turned down prior to the first date.
I think the closest you'll come to a rule is that if the girl gets the impression you want to be dating her for the sex (whether it's true or not) you're out the door.
Bright idea - why don't you play it by ear and find out what she's comfortable with?
RichUK
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Everything comes in three?s. When I say everything, I mean everything off, like t0t477y nekid girlz.
First date: Concentrate on the face, get stuck in my son
Second date: Boobies, its all about boobies
? you getting the trend? Each date you work your way down the body starting at the face. You start on the face to make it out as if you are interested in her for other things than sex. So this leads us on to date three?
Third date: Move further down south, don?t be shy. ? Give her the roaring donkey!!!!!! WOOHOO.
ATOT?s how to get sex in three dates
God I love these threads. :laugh:
First date: Concentrate on the face, get stuck in my son
Second date: Boobies, its all about boobies
? you getting the trend? Each date you work your way down the body starting at the face. You start on the face to make it out as if you are interested in her for other things than sex. So this leads us on to date three?
Third date: Move further down south, don?t be shy. ? Give her the roaring donkey!!!!!! WOOHOO.
ATOT?s how to get sex in three dates
God I love these threads. :laugh:
Fingolfin269
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Girl perspective: There is no universal rule, sorry. Personally, I'm a marriage = sex person, so any guy wanting sex during the dating phase would be turned down prior to the first date.
I think the closest you'll come to a rule is that if the girl gets the impression you want to be dating her for the sex (whether it's true or not) you're out the door.
Bright idea - why don't you play it by ear and find out what she's comfortable with?[/quote]
LOL, universal rule is no sex by the 3rd date means I'm no longer interested. no spark means no use in pursueing further. sure all the fluffy-duff stuff is fine in movies, but in the real world I have a schedule to maintain and an objective. I'm wife shopping, and if I don't get to feel/poke the merchandise then I ain't buying.
you aint putting out means get out.
sorry. that's reality.
sixone,
I'm looking for a women that is comfortable with her body/sexuality and herself. A woman understands the 3rd date rule, a girl does not.
note the term there - a woman. Not a girl.
I'm looking for a women that is comfortable with her body/sexuality and herself. A woman understands the 3rd date rule, a girl does not.
note the term there - a woman. Not a girl.
sex on first date within 40 mins of meeting eachother. Been married 4 yrs now. I guess if youre attracted to one another, there isnt really a rule for this. Just go with the flow of things.
ultimatebob
Lifer
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We REALLY need more female opinions on this. Where are GeekBabe and LolaWiz when you need them?
Oh, right, it's Saturday night. They're probably getting laid, unlike most of the folks giving advice in this thread
Oh, right, it's Saturday night. They're probably getting laid, unlike most of the folks giving advice in this thread
AreaCode707
Lifer
- Sep 21, 2001
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LOL, universal rule is no sex by the 3rd date means I'm no longer interested. no spark means no use in pursueing further. sure all the fluffy-duff stuff is fine in movies, but in the real world I have a schedule to maintain and an objective. I'm wife shopping, and if I don't get to feel/poke the merchandise then I ain't buying.
you aint putting out means get out.
sorry. that's reality.[/quote]
No sorry - you wouldn't be interested in me, and I (as stated) wouldn't have been interested in you. Anyhow, my husband is quite happy to keep me all to himself.
This thread is dumb. What are you going to do? If we all said it should be done on the 6th date, are you going to go out with her on the 6th date and say, "It is our 6th date. We are going to have sex now."
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