How fast did you make progress while dating..

yhelothar · Aug 4, 2006

Macked the first date.
Nothing perv about it

just felt right.
still together after a year.

Saint Nick · Aug 4, 2006

I waited four months or so?

ebaycj · Aug 4, 2006

Clean out the pipes twice right before you get ready to go out w/her.

JS80 · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: spidey07
I follow the 3rd date rule to the letter.

No sex by 3rd date = no more calling.

I agree 100%. No sex by 3rd date either means she don't want you or she REALLY likes you, in either case FTL.

IceBergSLiM · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
women arent objects!

prove it

krunchykrome · Aug 4, 2006

I remember the "stick out your hand" thing

But whats all this about a halo 2 shirt?

krunchykrome · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
women arent objects!

They are when they start going to parties without their boyfriends

Koing · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: EKKC
its funny that you guys want sex on the first date, sure, if you're going for a one night booty call go ahead, but if you're trying to find a gf, take things slow (but not too slow)
what im trying to say it, dont try to rush to sex, it will happen when it happens. if you just want to get off, there's the internet for that

Women want sex also! That doesn't mean you can't have a relationship also just because they are horny also.

Obviously don't push for sex on the first date but if it happens it happens. Just go with it, but definately kiss and get some touching going on. You want to be thought of in a romantic not a 'friend' type of way.

Koing

Abe Froman · Aug 4, 2006

Some guys don't even want that...and before you flame...They are straight.

I have a buddy who is 23 and is waiting til marriage. Girls actually get mad at him for not sleeping with them.

Personally, for me, it's a case by case basis with the girls. Some are much sooner than others, and that has no direct relationship with the quality or length of the relationship. Sometimes you develop a relationship that is ready for sex earlier on, other relationships just havent matured to sexual levels yet.

NaOH · Aug 4, 2006

1.5 years until a home run.

pontifex · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: spidey07
I follow the 3rd date rule to the letter.

No sex by 3rd date = no more calling.

so you only date sluts?

lightweight · Aug 4, 2006

sex, first time meeting.

spidey07 · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: pontifex
so you only date sluts?

No, 3rd date is kind of the norm. If you don't want to rip each others clothes off by then, something is wrong.

1st date - something light and fun, some kissing/hugging
2nd date - maybe dinner/nice conversation/heavy flirting, some touching or other naughty stuff
3rd date - cook dinner at my or her place followed by sex. repeat in the morning.

maximus maximus · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: pontifex
so you only date sluts?

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No, 3rd date is kind of the norm. If you don't want to rip each others clothes off by then, something is wrong.

1st date - something light and fun, some kissing/hugging
2nd date - maybe dinner/nice conversation/heavy flirting, some touching or other naughty stuff
3rd date - cook dinner at my or her place followed by sex. repeat in the morning.

That is exactly what I have planned for. Let us see how it goes.

Abe Froman · Aug 4, 2006

Did anyone mention the rule that it isn't a date if you are paying for the company? And I don't mean paying for drinks/food.

Because according to this thread, almost all of ATOT gets laid by the 3rd date. How is everyone finding the time to post so much if they are getting laid so often?

JulesMaximus · Aug 4, 2006

Depends, some women I got with the same night. Others took longer. Some others I never had sex with.

With my wife it took a couple months and then we moved in together shortly thereafter.

Jeff7 · Aug 4, 2006

How fast did you make progress while dating?

Slowly. Really slowly. Molasses in winter isn't accurate. Molasses in liquid helium is more accurate.

Haven't dated yet, and I'm 24. So there.

bennylong · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: maximus maximus

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Thanks a ton for your advice guys..

I am not just trying to get in her pants... just trying to build some friendship first.

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u gotta be careful... trying to build a friendship without making any moves to make her think otherwise will result in just that: a friendship. You gotta make a distinction pretty quickly, cuz once shes labeled you as a "friend", it can be a point of no return.

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Listen to this guy. You don't want to be friends.

Now you had better kiss her on the first date and lots of touching. Or you could just ask her to stick out her hand.

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Yes.. that is what I am planning. Lots of touching, lots of touching.

This being friends crap is going to land you to where I am. 33 years old virgin. Don't fall for this "friends" crap. Put your arms and hands all over her.

imported_inspire · Aug 4, 2006

sex / dating advice on ATOT?

Please shoot me in the face. Right, now. Please.

Jeff7 · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: bennylong

This being friends crap is going to land you to where I am. 33 years old virgin. Don't fall for this "friends" crap. Put your arms and hands all over her.

33? Dammit, now you've raised the bar even higher. Here I am at 24, and while I'm not predicting much change in the virgin status here, 33.....that's a long way off. We shall see, sir, we shall see.

Originally posted by: inspire
sex / dating advice on ATOT?

Please shoot me in the face. Right, now. Please.

But we're experts! On the theory part, anyway.

imported_goku · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
women arent objects!

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prove it

exactly. You're an object, I'm an object, women are infact objects.

Object

Something perceptible by one or more of the senses, especially by vision or touch; a material thing.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/object

JS80 · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: Abe Froman
Did anyone mention the rule that it isn't a date if you are paying for the company? And I don't mean paying for drinks/food.

Because according to this thread, almost all of ATOT gets laid by the 3rd date. How is everyone finding the time to post so much if they are getting laid so often?

You should update your original thread of your coworker with the kid.

TXHokie · Aug 4, 2006

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: pontifex
so you only date sluts?

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No, 3rd date is kind of the norm. If you don't want to rip each others clothes off by then, something is wrong.

1st date - something light and fun, some kissing/hugging
2nd date - maybe dinner/nice conversation/heavy flirting, some touching or other naughty stuff
3rd date - cook dinner at my or her place followed by sex. repeat in the morning.

This should be ratified into Man Law #15

Special K · Aug 5, 2006

When some of you guys have daughters one day, make sure to explain to her the three date rule when you have the birds and the bees talk

AbAbber2k · Aug 5, 2006

Sealed the deal with my last GF on the 3rd encounter.

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