How fast did you make progress while dating..

maximus maximus

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How many dates did it for you to have sex with your gf / bf?

I am going out on a date for the first time... so have been thinking about this question since yesterday.

I intend to proceed only till kissing today. Nothing more.
 

krunchykrome

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Originally posted by: maximus maximus
How many dates did it for you to have sex with your gf / bf?

I am going out on a date for the first time... so have been thinking about this question since yesterday.

I intend to proceed only till kissing today. Nothing more.


I've been with seven girls, 6 of which were relationships at least 8 months long. In all 7 cases, I never waited more than a week. I refuse to.
 

BooGiMaN

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there is no formula or set rules to dating..go with what feels right...

seriously go out to have fun if kissing or sex happens well thats icing on the cake, if you concentrate to hard on getting in her pants instead of getting to know her it might ruin the date for both of you...
 

Wapp

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It all depends. Some I would bang before we even started dating, some would ****** on the first date, and some it would take a week or two.

For clarification: I'm drawn to dirty, dirty sluts.
 

homercles337

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Sex on first date. Dated for nearly 2 years. Long distance and MUCH stress in my life resulted in me pushing her away. Tried to make things up to her only to find out that she ran off to Mexico (just a few days ago!) with this guy for 5 days. While i was in hospital! Her gifts and leftover sh!t are packed and ready to ship...

Just make sure she is SANE before getting involved.
 

CollectiveUnconscious

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The night before our first official date. I was friends with her brother, so we went out and she tagged along. Drinking led to sex...so I felt obligated to take her out to dinner the next day. Now we're married.
 

PingSpike

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I think it was the 4th date. The first date was just a quick coffee kind of thing.
 

maximus maximus

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Thanks a ton for your advice guys..

I am not just trying to get in her pants... just trying to build some friendship first.
 

K1052

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Variable, 5 or more the probability of sex/relationship goes down to about 5% or less.

Going on the 3rd date with one tonight, we'll see.
 

KillyKillall

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um...i pretty much moved in after our first date and now we've been together for 4 years and will be married in april. :)
 

rgwalt

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5 weeks or so, IIRC. We probably had 20 or so dates in that time period, some of which were just lunch dates or running dates.

R
 

bignateyk

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Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Thanks a ton for your advice guys..

I am not just trying to get in her pants... just trying to build some friendship first.


u gotta be careful... trying to build a friendship without making any moves to make her think otherwise will result in just that: a friendship. You gotta make a distinction pretty quickly, cuz once shes labeled you as a "friend", it can be a point of no return.
 

Cal166

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Varies...I have one that put out on the first date and another told me that I have to wait till our 6th date.
 

Pabster

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Originally posted by: Cal166
Varies...I have one that put out on the first date and another told me that I have to wait till our 6th date.

WTF is that, a scientologist? :p
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: bignateyk
Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Thanks a ton for your advice guys..

I am not just trying to get in her pants... just trying to build some friendship first.


u gotta be careful... trying to build a friendship without making any moves to make her think otherwise will result in just that: a friendship. You gotta make a distinction pretty quickly, cuz once shes labeled you as a "friend", it can be a point of no return.

Listen to this guy. You don't want to be friends.

Now you had better kiss her on the first date and lots of touching. Or you could just ask her to stick out her hand.
 

maximus maximus

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: bignateyk
Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Thanks a ton for your advice guys..

I am not just trying to get in her pants... just trying to build some friendship first.


u gotta be careful... trying to build a friendship without making any moves to make her think otherwise will result in just that: a friendship. You gotta make a distinction pretty quickly, cuz once shes labeled you as a "friend", it can be a point of no return.

Listen to this guy. You don't want to be friends.

Now you had better kiss her on the first date and lots of touching. Or you could just ask her to stick out her hand.

Yes.. that is what I am planning. Lots of touching, lots of touching. :)
 

Koing

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Make sure you kiss her on your first 'date'. You DO NOT want to be stuck in the friendship zone!

Hmmmm...me we didn't date. We just hung out and spent time together. If we counted that it would have been about a year...but oh f0ck it was GOOD.

Koing
 

EKKC

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its funny that you guys want sex on the first date, sure, if you're going for a one night booty call go ahead, but if you're trying to find a gf, take things slow (but not too slow)
what im trying to say it, dont try to rush to sex, it will happen when it happens. if you just want to get off, there's the internet for that