How do you stop loving someone?

[GeekDrew]

I can't really give any detail into the question, and wouldn't if I could.

But... say that you love this girl. You want to spend the rest of your life with her, treat her like a princess, and enjoy a life together... except she doesn't see you that way at all. It seems that everything you do or say makes the situation worse.

How do you stop loving her, without losing her as a friend? Its an age old question, and I've posted stuff along these lines before... and never gotten anywhere. heh

Suggestions?

 

[Leper Messiah]

you can't. and that is why people suck.

 

[intogamer]

Love someone else

 

[Shawn]

Originally posted by: intogamer
Love someone else

:thumbsup::thumbsup:

 

[ew915]

been there and done that, love someone else is absolutely the best answer you are going to get, in other words move on. it wasnt meant to be, stop wasting your time or else you will regret it in the future. if she doesnt see it the same way you do, then its her loss and you should definitely find someone worthy of your time.

 

[Aimster]

jerk off whenever u feel like u love her

when u r done jerking off u will realize u didnt love her

problem solved

 

[GeekDrew]

Originally posted by: Aimster
jerk off whenever u feel like u love her

when u r done jerking off u will realize u didnt love her

problem solved

No. That makes me feel worse about the situation, believe it or not.

 

[kwarkers]

You could just become a horror movie style stalker and end up killing her. lol im a really happy person

 

[imported_goku]

Become a cold heartless asshole, inspire some quiet girl some day when you get semi old, teasing and poking fun at her/all who you know with your whitty jokes, have her be mystified by you and "convert you back" with you coming to the realization that she is doing this with you explaining to her of a time some one broke your heart and then you turned into what you are now, she responds with some line and wins your heart for either her to leave you in a year or you two live happily ever after and you sell the script of your life. (Inhales and exhales, sighs)

 

[intogamer]

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: Aimster
jerk off whenever u feel like u love her

when u r done jerking off u will realize u didnt love her

problem solved

No. That makes me feel worse about the situation, believe it or not.

:laugh:

 

[GeekDrew]

Originally posted by: goku
Become a cold heartless asshole, inspire some quiet girl some day when you get semi old, teasing and poking fun at her/all who you now with your whitty jokes, have her be mystified by you and "convert you back" with you coming to the realization that she is doing this with you explaining to her of a time some one broke your heart and then you turned into what you are now, she responds with some line and wins your heart for either her to leave you in a year or you two live happily ever after and you sell the script of your life. (Inhales and exhales, sighs)

Thank you, Walt Disney. lol

 

[notfred]

Meet someone else, or stop hanging around her. Those are pretty much your only options.

 

[Shadowknight]

Depending on how bad it is, you might need 3 or 4 years. But yeah, avoiding her would be a good idea.

 

[Azuris]

same sh!t happend to me like 3 weeks ago.... just have to stop seeing the girl and eventually you will lose interest in her or find another love of your life...... you will look back on it one day and laugh so dont get to pissed about it...

 

[Captante]

Sad to say it, but I'm afraid you don't ... the only things that will make you feel better are time without seeing her at all (likely several years) & finding somone new to love.

 

[swtethan]

love your hand instead

 

[GeekDrew]

Originally posted by: swtethan
love your hand instead

sex has nothing to do with it folks :frown:

 

[Mo0o]

You can't. This is why unrequited love sucks so much. The only thing you can do is move on with your life and try to meet someone else.

 

[swtethan]

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan
love your hand instead

sex has nothing to do with it folks :frown:

i was playing around..... tell her everything you just said in your first post... dont stop trying...

 

[kwarkers]

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan
love your hand instead

sex has nothing to do with it folks :frown:

Are you sure your a bloke?

 

[xSkyDrAx]

Tell me about it man. Same thing going on here. Loving someone else is almost equally hard as you have to find someone else to love.

*sigh* man-drama

GL to you buddy.

 

[GeekDrew]

Originally posted by: swtethan

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan
love your hand instead

sex has nothing to do with it folks :frown:

i was playing around..... tell her everything you just said in your first post... dont stop trying...

that's pretty much not an option... she already knows what i said in my first post... she's a lurker here, so i'm sure she'll be reading this... <sigh> so this might be seen as a cry for attention or something when that's not at all what i intended.

i really don't want to stop trying, but when she's made it clear that nothing will ever happen... heh there's no way i could handle the heartbreak of continually trying and failing.

 

[swtethan]

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan
love your hand instead

sex has nothing to do with it folks :frown:

i was playing around..... tell her everything you just said in your first post... dont stop trying...

that's pretty much not an option... she already knows what i said in my first post... she's a lurker here, so i'm sure she'll be reading this... <sigh> so this might be seen as a cry for attention or something when that's not at all what i intended.

i really don't want to stop trying, but when she's made it clear that nothing will ever happen... heh there's no way i could handle the heartbreak of continually trying and failing.

if its not right then its not right... move on?
i bet at one time or another she thought of you as a potential boyfriend, all friends have

 

[GeekDrew]

Originally posted by: swtethan

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan
love your hand instead

sex has nothing to do with it folks :frown:

i was playing around..... tell her everything you just said in your first post... dont stop trying...

that's pretty much not an option... she already knows what i said in my first post... she's a lurker here, so i'm sure she'll be reading this... <sigh> so this might be seen as a cry for attention or something when that's not at all what i intended.

i really don't want to stop trying, but when she's made it clear that nothing will ever happen... heh there's no way i could handle the heartbreak of continually trying and failing.

if its not right then its not right... move on?
i bet at one time or another she thought of you as a potential boyfriend, all friends have

i'm trying to figure out how to move on... how to stop loving her. she's my best friend by far... so i feel like i'm really fvcked.

yes, she has said that she has thought about me being a potential boyfriend before, but that it can't happen. i disagree with her logic, though.... i think that is why i'm having such a hard time letting go.

<edit> i cannot fault her or "blame her" for what she believes in - i would never want to compromise something if she is certain of it. i just disagree with it.

 

[swtethan]

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan

Originally posted by: GeekDrew

Originally posted by: swtethan
love your hand instead

sex has nothing to do with it folks :frown:

i was playing around..... tell her everything you just said in your first post... dont stop trying...

that's pretty much not an option... she already knows what i said in my first post... she's a lurker here, so i'm sure she'll be reading this... <sigh> so this might be seen as a cry for attention or something when that's not at all what i intended.

i really don't want to stop trying, but when she's made it clear that nothing will ever happen... heh there's no way i could handle the heartbreak of continually trying and failing.

if its not right then its not right... move on?
i bet at one time or another she thought of you as a potential boyfriend, all friends have

i'm trying to figure out how to move on... how to stop loving her. she's my best friend by far... so i feel like i'm really fvcked.

yes, she has said that she has thought about me being a potential boyfriend before, but that it can't happen. i disagree with her logic, though.... i think that is why i'm having such a hard time letting go.

ask her what made her stop thinking about you as a b/f