How do you pass the time without your lovey...?

[Martgorb]

My fiance went to south carolina yesterday b/c she wanted to check out the university. It's the first time we have been apart for more than about 10 hours in the past 13 months. She was a little upset at me when she left but we made up on the way to the bus stop, but it still makes me sad. I keep thinking about all the things I could have done better, things to have more fun, etc. I feel so bad and guilty. I know she will be back in another night or 2, but I can't help but worry about that .001% chance something is more than she is letting on.

I am a slightly possessive/clingy person, which just makes it worse. I would do anything to hold her, I am talking about some nasty sh!t too man lol. We talked on the phone about 8:30 pm but she said she was going to call at 10:00 and didn't ...She definitely could have gone to sleep though knowing her.

I emailed her three times tonight too, so pathetic. Got drunk tonight too, just took a sleeping pill. Anyone got some words of wisdom? I feel like I'm about to breakdown...

 

[Lithium381]

you've got a right hand don't you? or a left would suffice if your right one is pre-occupied with the mouse....

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Martgorb
My fiance went to south carolina yesterday b/c she wanted to check out the university. It's the first time we have been apart for more than about 10 hours in the past 13 months. She was a little upset at me when she left but we made up on the way to the bus stop, but it still makes me sad. I keep thinking about all the things I could have done better, things to have more fun, etc. I feel so bad and guilty. I know she will be back in another night or 2, but I can't help but worry about that .001% chance something is more than she is letting on.

I am a slightly possessive/clingy person, which just makes it worse. I would do anything to hold her, I am talking about some nasty sh!t too man lol. We talked on the phone about 8:30 pm but she said she was going to call at 10:00 and didn't ...She definitely could have gone to sleep though knowing her.

I emailed her three times tonight too, so pathetic. Got drunk tonight too, just took a sleeping pill. Anyone got some words of wisdom? I feel like I'm about to breakdown...

BAD COMBINATION!

Call a friend. Have him/her come over and watch you for awhile. Hang out, have some water, play computer games, f@p, anything.

- M4H

 

[MichaelD]

Words of wisdom?

Once you reach the age of 24, these feelings will pass, b/c you will know better at that point.

You are welcome, and good luck.

 

[MichaelD]

BTW, ever see those "College Girls Gone Wild" videos? It's all girls that are going to school away from home...something to think about before you give her that ring. Dummy.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: Martgorb
My fiance went to south carolina yesterday b/c she wanted to check out the university. It's the first time we have been apart for more than about 10 hours in the past 13 months. She was a little upset at me when she left but we made up on the way to the bus stop, but it still makes me sad. I keep thinking about all the things I could have done better, things to have more fun, etc. I feel so bad and guilty. I know she will be back in another night or 2, but I can't help but worry about that .001% chance something is more than she is letting on.

I am a slightly possessive/clingy person, which just makes it worse. I would do anything to hold her, I am talking about some nasty sh!t too man lol. We talked on the phone about 8:30 pm but she said she was going to call at 10:00 and didn't ...She definitely could have gone to sleep though knowing her.

I emailed her three times tonight too, so pathetic. Got drunk tonight too, just took a sleeping pill. Anyone got some words of wisdom? I feel like I'm about to breakdown...

Sleep it off. REally no need to get worked up especially when drunk. What type of "sleeping" pill did you take?

 

[amnesiac]

Grow some balls.

My g/f is 2000 miles away. We see each other at most 2 days a month. She'll be moving back here in August which will make things easier.

As far as the possessive/clingy person, the only reason you're that way is because you're afraid of losing her. Why? Because you have no self esteem. Do you get upset when she hangs out with friends or if she talks to another guy? I bet you do. Trust, my friend, is the biggest building block in a relationship. Without it, you have nothing. Ah, but you trust her completely you say? Then what's that nagging feeling in the back of your head when she's not with you?

I know what it is. You have that demon chipping away at you because you don't trust yourself. Learn to have faith in the relationship, KNOW that your heart is true and hers will fall into place. All your worries will be gone and peace of mind can be restored no matter how far the distance or how long the separation.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder. If you find your heart goes yonder instead, smack it with a trout.





note to self: less drugs, more sleep.

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Martgorb
My fiance went to south carolina yesterday b/c she wanted to check out the university. It's the first time we have been apart for more than about 10 hours in the past 13 months. She was a little upset at me when she left but we made up on the way to the bus stop, but it still makes me sad. I keep thinking about all the things I could have done better, things to have more fun, etc. I feel so bad and guilty. I know she will be back in another night or 2, but I can't help but worry about that .001% chance something is more than she is letting on.

I am a slightly possessive/clingy person, which just makes it worse. I would do anything to hold her, I am talking about some nasty sh!t too man lol. We talked on the phone about 8:30 pm but she said she was going to call at 10:00 and didn't ...She definitely could have gone to sleep though knowing her.

I emailed her three times tonight too, so pathetic. Got drunk tonight too, just took a sleeping pill. Anyone got some words of wisdom? I feel like I'm about to breakdown...

Sleep it off. REally no need to get worked up especially when drunk. What type of "sleeping" pill did you take?

He'll live. I do believe most people have mixed pills and alcohol at one time or another. Stop lying...you know you did.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: MichaelD

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Martgorb
My fiance went to south carolina yesterday b/c she wanted to check out the university. It's the first time we have been apart for more than about 10 hours in the past 13 months. She was a little upset at me when she left but we made up on the way to the bus stop, but it still makes me sad. I keep thinking about all the things I could have done better, things to have more fun, etc. I feel so bad and guilty. I know she will be back in another night or 2, but I can't help but worry about that .001% chance something is more than she is letting on.

I am a slightly possessive/clingy person, which just makes it worse. I would do anything to hold her, I am talking about some nasty sh!t too man lol. We talked on the phone about 8:30 pm but she said she was going to call at 10:00 and didn't ...She definitely could have gone to sleep though knowing her.

I emailed her three times tonight too, so pathetic. Got drunk tonight too, just took a sleeping pill. Anyone got some words of wisdom? I feel like I'm about to breakdown...

Sleep it off. REally no need to get worked up especially when drunk. What type of "sleeping" pill did you take?

He'll live. I do believe most people have mixed pills and alcohol at one time or another. Stop lying...you know you did.

Um yeah I DID. My whole point is what TYPE. Benzos for the most part are fine, Zolpidem Tartrate is fine, but a barbituate is NOT fine and neither are some other types.

 

[MichaelD]

One or two pills of any type mixed with ETOH aren't going to kill you. Now, if you take half the damn bottle, that's another story.

A couple of Percocets with some booze will knock you the hell out for a few hours, but you'll live.

Maybe those "sleeping pills" are just Phenergan or some other sleepy-time pill...like Cyclobenzaprine (aka Flexeril...weak stuff)

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
One or two pills of any type mixed with ETOH aren't going to kill you. Now, if you take half the damn bottle, that's another story.

A couple of Percocets with some booze will knock you the hell out for a few hours, but you'll live.

Maybe those "sleeping pills" are just Phenergan or some other sleepy-time pill...like Cyclobenzaprine (aka Flexeril...weak stuff)

That is why I asked. Pretty much any one MIGHT be safe. I am trying to make sure he didn't stumble onto a cache of OC 160's and call them a sleeping pill because just one with alcohol WOULD easily kill anyone without an opiate tolerance. Percocets have APAP which is never good when it hits your liver with alcohol. Trust me, I have plenty of experience with pills...

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: MichaelD
One or two pills of any type mixed with ETOH aren't going to kill you. Now, if you take half the damn bottle, that's another story.

A couple of Percocets with some booze will knock you the hell out for a few hours, but you'll live.

Maybe those "sleeping pills" are just Phenergan or some other sleepy-time pill...like Cyclobenzaprine (aka Flexeril...weak stuff)

That is why I asked. Pretty much any one MIGHT be safe. I am trying to make sure he didn't stumble onto a cache of OC 160's and call them a sleeping pill because just one with alcohol WOULD easily kill anyone without an opiate tolerance. Percocets have APAP which is never good when it hits your liver with alcohol. Trust me, I have plenty of experience with pills...

Ah, good conversation...so hard to come by these days. Hopefully the guy is OK. He is obviously young; that means he either has done something really stupid, or done something new to him that he things is "fatal." I hope it's the latter. 'night.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: MichaelD

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: MichaelD
One or two pills of any type mixed with ETOH aren't going to kill you. Now, if you take half the damn bottle, that's another story.

A couple of Percocets with some booze will knock you the hell out for a few hours, but you'll live.

Maybe those "sleeping pills" are just Phenergan or some other sleepy-time pill...like Cyclobenzaprine (aka Flexeril...weak stuff)

That is why I asked. Pretty much any one MIGHT be safe. I am trying to make sure he didn't stumble onto a cache of OC 160's and call them a sleeping pill because just one with alcohol WOULD easily kill anyone without an opiate tolerance. Percocets have APAP which is never good when it hits your liver with alcohol. Trust me, I have plenty of experience with pills...

Ah, good conversation...so hard to come by these days. Hopefully the guy is OK. He is obviously young; that means he either has done something really stupid, or done something new to him that he things is "fatal." I hope it's the latter. 'night.

I wonder why he hasn't replied? Anyways goodnight to you too Michael, and watch out for the evil women.

 

[amnesiac]

Oh man talk about thread hijacking LOL. You guys are too much.

 

[notfred]

My fiancee is going to Oregon next week. I think I'm gonna buy stuff that she'd get mad at me for while she's gone.

 

[xirtam]

I try Taco Bell instead of Burger King.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: xirtam
I try Taco Bell instead of Burger King.

Rotflmao!! you are too funny,just go and ask the gitl out already!

 

[xirtam]

Hater.