How do you know if you live with a sociapath?

Mayne

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Me and my sister did an experiment this morning. We put a can of beer in a cupboard no one ever uses. Sister came home today and it was gone. She confronts her son and this ensued "I DIDN'T TAKE THE FUCKING BEER!!!!!"

so what gives here?
 

BoomerD

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Why do you continue to live with them?

This kind of shit is self-inflicted.
 

bbhaag

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Who cares if he took the beer? Even if he did what does it prove? Maybe he was hungry and looked through every cupboard in the house and stumbled across you and your sisters hidden trap. Now he's a sociopath? At least he ain't hiding beers around the house trying to ensnare you.

You sure he's the sociopath?
 

Mayne

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Who cares if he took the beer? Even if he did what does it prove? Maybe he was hungry and looked through every cupboard in the house and stumbled across you and your sisters hidden trap. Now he's a sociopath? At least he ain't hiding beers around the house trying to ensnare you.

You sure he's the sociopath?

his older sister lived with us up until 2 weeks ago... he still managed to steal everything out of her bank account after she moved out. It's really hard to describe the bullshit here man.
 

BoomerD

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So...kick EVERYONE out. Live on your own...or just move out yourself.

You know..in spite of all the family guilt and drama, you DON'T owe it to them to support them.
 
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Humpy

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I'm a doctor and I can tell you with certainty that setting a beer trap for an 18 year old is sociopathic.

They will take the beer 100% of the time.
 
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BoomerD

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Isn't 18 the age where you can legally kick them out? That's what I would do.

They're not HIS kids...under Canuckistan law, can he be legally obligated to let them stay? Granted, he would probably have to go through the legal eviction process...
 

Red Squirrel

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They're not HIS kids...under Canuckistan law, can he be legally obligated to let them stay? Granted, he would probably have to go through the legal eviction process...

Guess it depends if he's considered the legal guardian or not.

Though that said the eviction process on it's own is quite ridiculous, at least in Ontario. But I think in his case it's not as bad as they are not considered tenants, more like roommates. For tenants it's ridiculous how the laws are. I knew someone that went through the process and it was several years of hell to try to get an alcoholic out who never paid his bills and caused tons of damage.
 

Thebobo

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People generally suck. Live on your own, you can have 1 medium to large size dog or 2 cats. Or 3 gerbils and one guinea pig. Oh and if you really must you can have 1 reptile of your choice provided you don't have the cats, the dog will be ok. Although if you choose you could have 1 gerbil, 1 cat, a very small dog and a gecko.
 
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highland145

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People generally suck. Live on your own, you can have 1 medium to large size dog or 2 cats. Or 3 gerbils and one guinea pig. Oh and if you really must you can have 1 reptile of your choice provided you don't have the cats, the dog will be ok. Although if you choose you could have 1 gerbil, 1 cat, a very small dog and a gecko.
How about no pets, roommates, or extended family?
 

BurnItDwn

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Call the cops maybe? If he stole everything from his sisters bank account, time to write him off and let the law take care of tings.

Also, don't pay bail.
 

ctbaars

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People generally suck. Live on your own, you can have 1 medium to large size dog or 2 cats. Or 3 gerbils and one guinea pig. Oh and if you really must you can have 1 reptile of your choice provided you don't have the cats, the dog will be ok. Although if you choose you could have 1 gerbil, 1 cat, a very small dog and a gecko.
You have this very well thought out. You have vast experience with failure, I see.
 
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Mayne

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Dude, it's kinda sociopathic to take the beer and let your sister believe it was her son....


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and thats how I felt the whole time. so fucked up. I just gave them 20 dollars to go get some food..and by food i mean..no potato chips/popsicles/sugar shit. came home just now to them eating my last can of kidney beens and canned ham....I want to feel bad, but I can't.
 

Thebobo

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and thats how I felt the whole time. so fucked up. I just gave them 20 dollars to go get some food..and by food i mean..no potato chips/popsicles/sugar shit. came home just now to them eating my last can of kidney beens and canned ham....I want to feel bad, but I can't.

How many cats do you have?