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desiplaya4life

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laziness...boredom...depression(sorta)..

like for instance (me):: i dont feel like DOING anything lately. i feel bored, depressed and always find my self at home just about everynight. i overthink over past situations (i been thru breaksup in the past that just taunt me sometimes till this day). i tell myself that i WOULD LIKE to go out and have fun but i just dont because im not generally 'motivated'??

i mean i have friends that use to keep asking me to go out w/ them join them but feels like im not social as i use to be or as i want to be? heck if its my best friends i'll feel like doing anything w/ them but if its regular friends.. im always contemplating.

how do you overcome this? have any of you guys been in same situation? i dont want to go thru medication or anything like that. any inputs would be appreciated=)

thanks
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
whens the last time you got laid
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i dont like to drink when im depressed. i dont like beer especially lol. actually i was shooting pool w/ my buds and i was down so i drank something called 'grasshopper' (alcohol) and it kinda cheered me up haha

and believe me getting laid is not a problem. and im not that kinda guy.. trying to hook up w/ people. im happy the way i am.


i mean what im asking here is what you do! do helpyourself get out these situations.. simple=) i am sure i am not the only one here that felt like this.
 
Originally posted by: desiplaya4life
Originally posted by: gigapet
whens the last time you got laid
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i dont like to drink when im depressed. i dont like beer especially lol. actually i was shooting pool w/ my buds and i was down so i drank something called 'grasshopper' (alcohol) and it kinda cheered me up haha

and believe me getting laid is not a problem. and im not that kinda guy.. trying to hook up w/ people. im happy the way i am.
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ok i was just asking cuz i usually feel down if ive been in a slump for a couple weeks.

but sounds like you need a radical lifestyle change. Quit your job and go sell coconuts on the beach in some exotic destination. and if that fails watch fight club.
 
depends on how long it last and how often. might be worht talking to someone. i have seen the efects of depression (my wife) and it is not fun.
 
I play a round of golf... which makes me so miserable I realize how happy I was before I played golf.

Then I get some beer... and strippers...
 
so you aren't the kinda guy that tries to hookup with chicks, yet you have "playa" in your name?

i call shens on something here. those 2 don't add up.
 
Go to the gym every day, you'll start feeling great

I kinda had the same thing, but I forced myself out, and I'm really glad I did. And if the night isnt going too well (everyones doing something lame), then I go home or hang out with other friends.
 
Originally posted by: desiplaya4life
Originally posted by: gigapet
whens the last time you got laid
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i dont like to drink when im depressed. i dont like beer especially lol. actually i was shooting pool w/ my buds and i was down so i drank something called 'grasshopper' (alcohol) and it kinda cheered me up haha

and believe me getting laid is not a problem. and im not that kinda guy.. trying to hook up w/ people. im happy the way i am.


i mean what im asking here is what you do! do helpyourself get out these situations.. simple=) i am sure i am not the only one here that felt like this.
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I suggest a drink called a pink squirell
Damn tasty.

 
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
I play a round of golf... which makes me so miserable I realize how happy I was before I played golf.

Then I get some beer... and strippers...
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LMAOOOOO



hahaha

man i hate golf! i should try that sometime lol
 
Originally posted by: Coolone
Go to the gym every day, you'll start feeling great

I kinda had the same thing, but I forced myself out, and I'm really glad I did. And if the night isnt going too well (everyones doing something lame), then I go home or hang out with other friends.
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hmmm

so i should force myself to go out huh even if i am not looking forward for a pleasant evening..
 
Originally posted by: desiplaya4life
Originally posted by: Coolone
Go to the gym every day, you'll start feeling great

I kinda had the same thing, but I forced myself out, and I'm really glad I did. And if the night isnt going too well (everyones doing something lame), then I go home or hang out with other friends.
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hmmm

so i should force myself to go out huh even if i am not looking forward for a pleasant evening..
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Wait until you are ready. Invite some people over to your place instead, for Pizza and what not.
What makes you happy in life?
 
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