How do you find out if some one is gay? (Or Lesbian)

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imported_goku

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Originally posted by: Aquaman
why even ask her out....... you won't have any money to take her out ........... since it's all in the bank and you can't touch it till your 18 :roll:

Cheers,
Aquaman

I don't understand the used of the :roll: emoticon you put in that post.
 

sswingle

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Originally posted by: BlancoNino
Originally posted by: intogamer
just cause they do lesbian stuff doesn't mean they are lesbians...

And just because I had sex with a man last night doesn't mean I'm gay either.

<slowly backs out of thread>
 

madeupfacts

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no straight women can resist teh uberness of my sound
if teh girl is not throowing herself at me, she is definitly of lesbian kind
 

Forsythe

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Originally posted by: BlancoNino
Originally posted by: intogamer
just cause they do lesbian stuff doesn't mean they are lesbians...

And just because I had sex with a man last night doesn't mean I'm gay either.

Just means you're gross.
 

sandorski

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Unless you're attracted to her, what does it matter? Ask her out and see what happens, but realize that being turned down doesn't answer your question..
 

EngenZerO

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bi ftw!!!

bring it up in casual converstaion... tell her you think women who are bi are hot... see how she responds... be prepared for a possible disgusted look and her thinking your a male pig (that is if she is hardcore lesbian)
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: nkgreen
Ask her out. If she says yes, she's straight. If she says no, it doesn't matter because you're not getting laid anyway.
If she says no that just means she has good taste.
 

CravenTacos

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why not just ask if she has a myspace or facebook account? the rainbow colored background and the i support gay marriage banners are a clue.

if she has perfect teeth, wears polo shirts, has short hair that changes style every month somehow, and she listens to nothing but chick bands, you've got yourself a cliche
 

imported_goku

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Originally posted by: EngenZerO
bi ftw!!!

bring it up in casual converstaion... tell her you think women who are bi are hot... see how she responds... be prepared for a possible disgusted look and her thinking your a male pig (that is if she is hardcore lesbian)

Well wouldn't you get the same response if she was a hardcore straight woman?

Originally posted by: CravenTacos
if she has perfect teeth, wears polo shirts, has short hair that changes style every month somehow, and she listens to nothing but chick bands, you've got yourself a cliche

Cliche what? If I'm assuming correctly, Cliche lesbian? But what about natalie portman? Text
 
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Who gives a fvck. she likely doesn't. If you ask her something like that you'll only come off as an idiot. If I had knowledge of something like that it wouldn't deter me from asking her out. Asking her about her orientation directly is honestly none of my business if I'm just getting to know her. If she wants me to know bad enough, she'll tell me.

Hell, what does it matter anyway. My last girlfriend was bi, but I didn't know until a month or so into the relationship. Even then, finding out was no big deal.

You're putting too much on this.
 

mancunian

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Originally posted by: nkgreen
Ask her out. If she says yes, she's straight. If she says no, it doesn't matter because you're not getting laid anyway.

This amused me. :D

I agree, just ask her out man.

 

EKKC

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Originally posted by: neutralizer
Originally posted by: blackdogdeek
Originally posted by: neutralizer
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
Girls do crazy things at parties, doesn't really say anything about their sexuality IMO.

You can either:
1. Ask
2. Think about it forever
3. Leave the issue alone and forget
4. Get a gaydar detector or someone with this special ability

I can make one similar to The Office for you.

they were sold out at the sharper image.

Did you try Brookstone?

ROFL that was a great episode i couldn't stop laughing when he kissed the guy
 

lokiju

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I've gone out with a girl that would make out with other girls and even more from time to time.

Doesn't make them gay more bi-curious I'd say.

 

rockyct

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Originally posted by: neutralizer
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
Girls do crazy things at parties, doesn't really say anything about their sexuality IMO.

You can either:
1. Ask
2. Think about it forever
3. Leave the issue alone and forget
4. Get a gaydar detector or someone with this special ability

I can make one similar to The Office for you.

That's exactly what I was thinking. :)