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How do you feel about your ex's?

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hzl eyed grl

hzl eyed grl

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I was thinking about this earlier. How many of you still have feelings for, still love, or are still in love with any of your ex's?
 
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Kevin

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If you have a real relationship with someone, how could you not feel something for them? You dedicated a great deal of time and effort to just forget everything? I think not...
 
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Maetryx

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I have an ex-WIFE. Ugh. I'm always walking on eggshells around her, but it's not as bad as it was at first. We separated 7 years ago.
 
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PsychoAndy

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I dated her for a bit, we seperated and then she lost 80 pounds.

I saw her about 2 weeks ago and I didnt even recognize her.

*Thought to self: I.....DATED.......THAT?!?!?!??!?!?*

:eek:

I'd say we know each other but we're not close anymore.

-PAB
 
hzl eyed grl

hzl eyed grl

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Originally posted by: gopunk
where's the option for "just friends"?
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kevin000 - I agree with you. I have, however, been in a few very short relationships where I was never really in love, so I don't have feelings for them anymore although we're still friends.


I'm going to be going to bed soon, so I'll check this later. :)
 
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gopunk

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Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Originally posted by: gopunk
where's the option for "just friends"?
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yay! :)

um yea, in case you can't tell, i chose that option. i'm not a particularly spiteful person, and none of my breakups have been because either one of us did something wrong, like cheating. so i get along with them just fine.
 
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Kevin

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Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Originally posted by: gopunk
where's the option for "just friends"?
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kevin000 - I agree with you. I have, however, been in a few very short relationships where I was never really in love, so I don't have feelings for them anymore although we're still friends.


I'm going to be going to bed soon, so I'll check this later. :)
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Well yeah, it only applies to semi-long or long. Something that lasted a few days, weeks or 1-2 months is nothing compared to something that lasted 6 months to a few years.
 
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Wingznut

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I am still married to my one and only wife. :)

As for my ex-girlfriends, I don't think about them at all. Not friends, not enemies... Just nothing.

To be concerned (one way or another) about another woman would not be fair to my wife.
 
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DougK62

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Originally posted by: kevin000
If you have a real relationship with someone, how could you not feel something for them? You dedicated a great deal of time and effort to just forget everything? I think not...
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I think so. I dated my ex for a year and a half. We were very serious and started to talk about marriage. I found out that she had cheated on me with at least two other guys. We broke up and I haven't given two thoughts to it. I see her every once in a while and we act civil. I have zero feelings for her now.

 
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CraigRT

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There is 1 ex that stands out in my mind. we're still friends to this day, she's changed alot, and I think I would even like to go out with her again. of course, I am not going to. it's just not going to happen. and that's fine. but yeah, isn't that strange... :confused:
 
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Soong

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um...all my ex gfs... i don't have a clue to what happened to them... but we were civil...i think...or at least cordial... my wife and I having problems (cheating and it's not me) but we will most likely be friends still if not best friends... we have 4 kids together...*sigh*
 
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Kadarin

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There are very, very few people in this world that I would wish death or serious injury upon, but sadly my ex falls well within that category.
 
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AmdInside

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I've had more than one ex but there is one that stounds out. We were together for 2 1/2 years. She broke up with me because she still had feelings for her ex. I just broke up with my current gf because I realized I didn't have as strong of feelings for her as I did my ex and it would be unfair of me to drag this relationship too long because I knew where it would end up in the end. My ex is dating someone now, not the guy who she dumped me for (she tried to get back together with him a while back but that didn't work out). We are still close friends but I think I am going to distance myself from her for a while since I still have feelings for her and it sucks when she is dating someone else. What really sucks is that her last relationship and her current relationship are both to guys whom I think I would be more desirable than. They don't have as good of a job as I do (by a large margain). The last one was a jerk to her. The current one I haven't met but she says he dresses ghetto and the only good thing she said about him was that he is a nice guy (I think of everyone I know, I win in the niceness category). She even started cursing which she didn't do before because she picked it up from dating her current boyfriend. I don't do have habits that women generally find annoying. I have average looks. What's sad is that there is this really hot chic that I could probably date now if I wanted to but I am worried that in the end, I might still think of my ex and that would make it unfair for her. Oh well. Guess you can't have everything in life.
 
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sk560

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those options should also take into account the current "status" of the person making the selection... that will make this topic more interesting.

just my 2 cents.

 
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minendo

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Let's just say that for one of them I backed into her brand new car causing $1300 in damage and I laughed it off.
 
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Stark

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is thread about xerox man?

i don't know if the world is ready for "as the ATOT turns" soap-opera. :p
 
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bolido2000

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We were together for 2.5 years and we broke up 4 months ago. Sadly, I think I still have feeling for her. The funny thing is that I miss her cat more than anything lol.
I have a question for you guys...she came to my apt the other day cuz I had to give her a laptop bag. It was like 10pm at night and she refused to come into my apt. Why?? we are still friends and I am guessing is because seeing my apt will remind her of things. If that is the case...it means she is not over the break up yet right?
 
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dirtboy

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I am absolutely not in love with my ex-wife. Been divorced for a year. Haven't talked to her or seen her for a year. :) As that goes, I'll probably never talk to her again or ever see her again.
 
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dirtboy

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Originally posted by: bolido2000
We were together for 2.5 years and we broke up 4 months ago. Sadly, I think I still have feeling for her. The funny thing is that I miss her cat more than anything lol.
I have a question for you guys...she came to my apt the other day cuz I had to give her a laptop bag. It was like 10pm at night and she refused to come into my apt. Why?? we are still friends and I am guessing is because seeing my apt will remind her of things. If that is the case...it means she is not over the break up yet right?
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I wouldn't try to read into it. It could be many things.
 
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