Raise the standards and say "keep up".
I do not agree with the idea that learning needs to incorporate games and technology to make it interesting and effective. Personally I think more screens detracts from learning rather than enhances it, but the school technology lobby would say otherwise. To learn, you need:
Effective teacher
Engaged parents
Textbooks
Black/white board
Pencil
Paper
And later on a calculator
Beyond that to me is just distraction. Can other things be incorporated to help the kids learn, sure? Is it ever effectively used? Not often enough to justify the expense. Instead of flashy new things, hire worthwhile educators. Don't teach to the lowest common denominator. Hold parents accountable too, not just the teacher.
It doesn't matter what either you or the technology lobby says. What matters is what peer reviewed research says on the subject. I can't remember a lot of studies off the top of my head (I have a master's degree in technology in education) - but one that was pretty specific that I was just looking at a couple of weeks ago was that students who learned and practiced taking tests on computers showed significantly better results than students who took tests on computers (with the same material) but other than the test, hadn't had significant access to the computers.
Beyond that though, you really have to differentiate between when computers are used for the sake of technology, and when computers are used to enhance education.
I'll describe an activity I do in physics:
Students use their ipods to video a ball being thrown vertically in the air. They use the application video physics to go frame by frame and mark the location of the ball. (If you took physics, no doubt you either saw a video, or perhaps your teacher even did it in the classroom with a strobe light and a falling ball.) From the data that the students gain by doing this, it's obvious that the ball doesn't travel the same distance per unit of time (1/30th of a second). Further, this data can be exported to other Vernier software to do even more analysis, including a very accurate calculation of the acceleration due to gravity. I then proceed to have students throw a ball to a friend, and repeat this video analysis. Students discover that horizontally, the speed of the ball does not change - it moves the same distance along the x-axis for every unit of time. While, the motion in the y-direction mirrors the previous experiment. Students are able to make quite a few deductions from this & gain a deeper understanding of 2-dimensional motion. For what it's worth, this follows the modeling curriculum (See Arizona State if you want more info) - it's been well researched as to be about the most effective way to teach these concepts without introducing misconceptions.
Can you even come close to such a lesson, without technology?
edit: Thought I'd bold a portion of your quote, and question you about it. Agreed - the VAST majority of successful students have engaged parents. What the hell do you do about children whose parents never graduated from high school & don't really care if their kids graduate? To them, school is a babysitting service/something you simply do until you're a little older, then you can drop out.
Also, BAH! I'd never go back to a black board or white board. Promethean or Smart Board, please. I can make my lessons significantly better using that technology. Granted, I know some teachers in some districts barely use that technology - they treat those boards as electronic versions of blackboards, but their capabilities are significantly better than blackboards.
And, can we settle for pens? I hate pencils.