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How do you deal with this (semi-mature)?

BobMarley

Junior Member
It's sort of a double standard thing but...

How do you deal if your partner/gf/bf has had multiple sexual parntners?

I've had quite a few and she has too. But deep down I still have this burning hatred that she could be so loose with all those people.

It's a double standard, I know.

HOW DO/DID you deal with this?

Thanks!!!
 
YOu know what bothers me? When I visualize her screaming with pleasure and saying naughty things to her past partners.

Whoops, sorry...I'm sure that didn't make you feel any better.
 
You get over it. Sex is part of life. Women enjoy it, too.

It really doesn't matter how many partners she's had. If she decides to spend her time with you, what does it matter? You should count your blessings.
 
So the thought that she may have had more foul balls bounce off her chin than Yogi Berra has you a little bothered Bunky?
 
Unless she has been loose with all these people while you were dating - you really need to get over it/yourself.
 
Originally posted by: jspeicher
YOu know what bothers me? When I visualize her screaming with pleasure and saying naughty things to her past partners.

Whoops, sorry...I'm sure that didn't make you feel any better.

 
You get the fvck over yourself.

The only reason I can see you being bothered by her sexual past is because you're afraid you can't satisfy her.
 
Originally posted by: Greyd
Unless she has been loose with all these people while you were dating - you really need to get over it/yourself.

Like someone posted above, it's a part of life, deal with it.

--Mark
 
Sounds like you made your own bed, and now it's time to sleep in it.

Advice? Ditch the girl, abstain from sex for a couple of years while you get your self esteem/worth back, then try again.
 
The situation is a lot more common that you think. Just remember that it doesn't matter...unless her past partners were better endowed than you are, in which case you will just have to learn to deal with the fact that you can never satisfy her like they did.

:music: hey kid I hope you know, sometimes life is gonna suck.
hey kid I hope you know, sometimes everthing's gonna be fvcked up :music:
 
Originally posted by: pulse8
You get the fvck over yourself.

The only reason I can see you being bothered by her sexual past is because you're afraid you can't satisfy her.

bahahaha ... good point.
 
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
So the thought that she may have had more foul balls bounce off her chin than Yogi Berra has you a little bothered Bunky?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
 
Originally posted by: Hoober
You get over it. Sex is part of life. Women enjoy it, too.

It really doesn't matter how many partners she's had. If she decides to spend her time with you, what does it matter? You should count your blessings.

You said it better than I ever could!
 
Originally posted by: BobMarley
It's sort of a double standard thing but...

How do you deal if your partner/gf/bf has had multiple sexual parntners?

I've had quite a few and she has too. But deep down I still have this burning hatred that she could be so loose with all those people.

It's a double standard, I know.

HOW DO/DID you deal with this?

Thanks!!!

LMAO.....You have a burning hatred that she might be so loose with all those people. Hahahaha, have a little more confidence when it comes to your member, it deserves nothing less. Look man, 9 times out of ten, your not going to find a girl who has been with 0-1 men sexually. Whats the big deal. I've been with virgins and I've been with a girl who was with 10 guys before me. I don't care.What is it exactly that you are trying to deal with? It sounds more like you have insecurity issues rather than there actually being a problem with her that you need to deal with.
 
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