How do you deal with a problem?

[radioouman]

So, how do you deal with a problem?

Do you fly off the handle thinking that anger is the best way to get your point across?

Do you try to explain your position civily, thinking that clear thinking with a concise argument is best?

Do you fume on the inside, never let your feelings show, and then stab the other person in the back when he's most vulnerable?

 

[leftyman]

my only problem is this thread 😀

 

[spherrod]

clear thinking with concise argument is generally the best I find.

 

[meltdown75]

it depends.

if i'm working, for example, i can't fly off the handle at someone because customer service is a part of the job.

at home, i know anger is not the best way to address issues, but i have a temper problem and sometimes i have a hissy fit.

 

[akubi]

smile now, destroy later

 

[SparkyJJO]

depends on my mood 😉

 

[Lola]

Most of the time, i kind of freak out first without thinking then i calm down and then use my head.
I know i should chill first before speaking and overreacting. 🙁

 

[ATLien247]

Whatever the situation calls for... which is usually just a "meh".

 

[iamtrout]

I murder the source of the problem.