I played a lot of strategy games. Worked well.
Read books about critical thinking.
Do post-mortem analysis on things - claiming you're just a contemplative person will get you breathing space.
Eventually, you'll get better at it and eventually be able to do it "live."
Strategy/Board games aren't great by themselves - they simply represent a closed system with fixed rules - a puzzle - which you can figure out. Once you figure it out, you can usually decide the best solution for "winning." This takes place in most games, and sucks the fun out of them.
I've always wondered why so many gamers who are adept at learning the unstated rules and constraints of video games and then exploiting them are so poor at doing the same at work or in social situations? It would seem their prejudices and fears cloud the logical thinking they tend to pride themselves on.![]()
Any suggestions.
These are probably one of the most important skills to have in the world. Both socially and professionally.
Social situations - and life in general - are far more complex and nuanced than most video games.I've always wondered why so many gamers who are adept at learning the unstated rules and constraints of video games and then exploiting them are so poor at doing the same at work or in social situations? It would seem their prejudices and fears cloud the logical thinking they tend to pride themselves on.![]()
Social situations - and life in general - are far more complex and nuanced than most video games.
Most people don't have, for instance, life bars, aggro meters, or affinity points.
There's also no save points, undo, or cancelling out of a conversation to start over.
I can't get my ex to like me again by handing her dead animal parts.
And I CERTAINLY can't just kill everything on the screen and then wait for a new girl to respawn so I can try the conversation again.
That said, most of what I do in The Cubicle involves fixing "puzzles" that are about on par (complexity-wise) with most video games. The difference is that I get paid for it. And that I can ask other people for help without getting ganked and teabagged.
So social anxiety?
WOuld a tiny bit of alcohol help with that?
