My ex girlfriend and I have a pretty close group of mutual friends. What this means is that we see each other at least once a month.
Anyway, the situation seems really stupid, but just hear me out...
I want to get back together with her (and I've let her know this). She says she doesn't want to get back together. I've accepted this and while I still wish to be with her, I won't push for anything and told her that I still want her friendship. She agrees that she wants to be friends. We became basically best friends while we were together.
Anyway, she says that we can't hang out together when it's just the two of us. Only with "groups" of people.
Now the part that actually makes me mad.
She says she wants to be friends, BUT, in the 6 months we've been apart she has never phoned me to say hi or ask how I'm doing. The only time I ever talk to her is when I phone her, or if she returns a phone call that I made initially.
I'm having people over at my house this weekend and while I'd love to invite her, I feel like a real fool for once again being the one to make the phone call.
So my situation is, do I:
1. Not invite her, and when she finds out I didn't invite her, she'll probably be angry that I didn't bother to phone, which hurt my chances with her. (although I can't say I'm caring that much about when I'm feeling angry like this).
2. Do what I feel is the "right" thing to do and that is to keep being friendly and ask her to come over. I don't like this because I feel pathetic for always being the one to call her. I absolutely hate that she has not once bothered to initiate a call.
Anyway, in the grand scheme of things, this is a pretty retarded thing to be worrying about, but this is the biggest thing bothering me at this point in time.
Thoughts?
OrgName: University of Manitoba
OrgID: UNIVER-122
Address: Engineering Building
City: Winnipeg
StateProv: MB
PostalCode: R3T-2N2
Country: CA
Anyway, the situation seems really stupid, but just hear me out...
I want to get back together with her (and I've let her know this). She says she doesn't want to get back together. I've accepted this and while I still wish to be with her, I won't push for anything and told her that I still want her friendship. She agrees that she wants to be friends. We became basically best friends while we were together.
Anyway, she says that we can't hang out together when it's just the two of us. Only with "groups" of people.
Now the part that actually makes me mad.
She says she wants to be friends, BUT, in the 6 months we've been apart she has never phoned me to say hi or ask how I'm doing. The only time I ever talk to her is when I phone her, or if she returns a phone call that I made initially.
I'm having people over at my house this weekend and while I'd love to invite her, I feel like a real fool for once again being the one to make the phone call.
So my situation is, do I:
1. Not invite her, and when she finds out I didn't invite her, she'll probably be angry that I didn't bother to phone, which hurt my chances with her. (although I can't say I'm caring that much about when I'm feeling angry like this).
2. Do what I feel is the "right" thing to do and that is to keep being friendly and ask her to come over. I don't like this because I feel pathetic for always being the one to call her. I absolutely hate that she has not once bothered to initiate a call.
Anyway, in the grand scheme of things, this is a pretty retarded thing to be worrying about, but this is the biggest thing bothering me at this point in time.
Thoughts?
OrgName: University of Manitoba
OrgID: UNIVER-122
Address: Engineering Building
City: Winnipeg
StateProv: MB
PostalCode: R3T-2N2
Country: CA
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