How do I fix an abusive mother?

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RKS

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lol, ATOT is so much funnier than the local paper. It makes for great morning reading. OP your life needs a reset button.

If you want to get your mother 'fixed' she is gonna have to see her OB-GYN or try the local clinic. Though this route may involve some sort of informed consent on her part I now understand your fear of more siblings.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: RKS
lol, ATOT is so much funnier than the local paper. It makes for great morning reading. OP your life needs a reset button.

Only in retrospect.
Many people think/feel this way when they are younger. When you are looking back, or outside looking in, you might think he is an idiot. But if you were him in his position you might think and feel the way he does.
 

pontifex

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Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: RKS
lol, ATOT is so much funnier than the local paper. It makes for great morning reading. OP your life needs a reset button.

If you want to get your mother 'fixed' tell her to hire a hitman to take out her two worthless, lazy, disrespectful, gluttonous sons.

fixed
 

Tiamat

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Nov 25, 2003
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Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: Sinsear




Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
I am a 16/17 year old kid who is independent. When I say independent, I mean thinking wise and I can do anything that will please me.

Herein lies the problem; and it's a problem with alot of today's youth. You think you know everything and can do whatever you please without consequence. Grow up, respect your mother, and stop your fscking whining.

:thumbsup:

:thumbsup:
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RKS
lol, ATOT is so much funnier than the local paper. It makes for great morning reading. OP your life needs a reset button.

If you want to get your mother 'fixed' tell her to hire a hitman to take out her two worthless, lazy, disrespectful, gluttonous sons.

fixed

:thumbsup:
 

allisolm

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Jan 2, 2001
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Wow, I'm very insulted.. I get picked on my English skills, my life, and my attitude.

Give us some time. I'm sure we can find other things about which we can pick on you.
 

mooglekit

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Originally posted by: Tiamat
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: Sinsear
Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
I am a 16/17 year old kid who is independent. When I say independent, I mean thinking wise and I can do anything that will please me.
Herein lies the problem; and it's a problem with alot of today's youth. You think you know everything and can do whatever you please without consequence. Grow up, respect your mother, and stop your fscking whining.
:thumbsup:
:thumbsup:
:thumbsup: WINNAR!!!
Oh, and shens.

 

Tiamat

Lifer
Nov 25, 2003
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Originally posted by: allisolm
Wow, I'm very insulted.. I get picked on my English skills, my life, and my attitude.

Give us some time. I'm sure we can find other things about which we can pick on you.

:laugh: I :heart: ATOT
 

SZLiao214

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Sep 9, 2003
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"I just be a little devil and deny every rule she implies against my will."

Looks like she should kick you out of the house hold.

You should run away and work a minimum wage job. Even that will buy a ton of peanut butter cups.
 

Lonyo

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So, how can the OP not know his own age?
He's 16/17? Which is it, 16 or 17?
 

zinfamous

No Lifer
Jul 12, 2006
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what is the going ad rate on page 6 post spaces?

anyhoo, you've given no explanation as to the details of your "ever-important dialy routine," and why such interruptions to its progress constitute an inviolable breach of ethics and humanity on your mom's part. being that your'e 15, it stands to reason that anything in your daily schedule is trite in comparison to the issues your mom has to deal with (such as raising you and your brother, paying mortgage, etc).

sounds like your mother is incapacitated. rather than complain about her "invasions to your personal space," you should be a real son and help her out. You'll find that everyone's attitude around the house will drastically improve if her burden can be somewhat mitigated.

grow up, and b1tch about your "horrible" life on myspace, or something similar.

 

zinfamous

No Lifer
Jul 12, 2006
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Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
Wow, I'm very insulted.. I get picked on my English skills, my life, and my attitude. I was trying to write earlier that I have to have the world revolve around me for now. Why you say, I need to feel free and peaceful in order to do my work. I don't want my mother on my back all the time, I can understand that she is going through alot of problems in her life but I don't want to add another to her stockpile. I let her be and whenever my mother asks for help, I give it. I do whatever she says but I say that if you ask for something, do it politely. It is a request, not an order. I know I will get flamed for this but I do not believe in authority. It makes the house divided and the administrator pulls all the strings to your daily life. I don't want to be a puppet you know? In addition, I work my arse off in my English class and I can not get anywhere. I have a bad life I think, I am not normal and my situation grows harder everyday. Someone will say that you never seen what a "Hard situation" is but I compare everything to my standards, not yours. I don't obey the pure pressure that accumulates around me when I am on a forum; your views and standards will reflect your replies on this topic. I do not know what to do with my life, I am lost, and my social life is disintegrating with every second I lose. There is no help here, nothing of use. I get attacked and nothing more. If I just keep seeing things about how magnificent this thread is, I will dump this.

Ha, I just described the internet in one post.

it's your concept of "work" that leads to the trashing by otehr posters. simply put: there is no work that a 16 year-old can have that validates the disrespect and inhumanity you display towards your mother
 

CPA

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How about this:

1) Quit your bitchin and count yourself lucky you even have a roof over your head
2) Get a job so you can buy your own food. You know what they say "beggars can't be choosers."
3) Understand that this is nothing like when you get out on your own and the real world slaps you in the face.
 

CPA

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Nov 19, 2001
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Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
Wow, I'm very insulted.. I get picked on my English skills, my life, and my attitude. I was trying to write earlier that I have to have the world revolve around me for now. Why you say, I need to feel free and peaceful in order to do my work. I don't want my mother on my back all the time, I can understand that she is going through alot of problems in her life but I don't want to add another to her stockpile. I let her be and whenever my mother asks for help, I give it. I do whatever she says but I say that if you ask for something, do it politely. It is a request, not an order. I know I will get flamed for this but I do not believe in authority. It makes the house divided and the administrator pulls all the strings to your daily life. I don't want to be a puppet you know? In addition, I work my arse off in my English class and I can not get anywhere. I have a bad life I think, I am not normal and my situation grows harder everyday. Someone will say that you never seen what a "Hard situation" is but I compare everything to my standards, not yours. I don't obey the pure pressure that accumulates around me when I am on a forum; your views and standards will reflect your replies on this topic. I do not know what to do with my life, I am lost, and my social life is disintegrating with every second I lose. There is no help here, nothing of use. I get attacked and nothing more. If I just keep seeing things about how magnificent this thread is, I will dump this.

Ha, I just described the internet in one post.


Man, I can't wait for you to have kids....wait, scratch that, you should never be allowed to have kids.
 

sourceninja

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Originally posted by: ShadowOfMyself
Originally posted by: sourceninja
Life is not about fun, suck it up and be a man/woman. Go get a job, do good in school and make something of yourself. Life is not video games, it's about being forced to do things you do not want to do. In the real world life is going to be a lot worse then listen to your mom and trying to play videogames. IF you want to have any fun you are going to have to work a lot harder then you think. So start now, suck it up.

Man kids these days, if I ever have children I'm putting them in boxing as soon as they can stand. I'm sick of all these wussy kids.

What the hell... Life is not about fun? Then why are you still here? Maybe you just enjoy living an unfulfilling life, I and many dont

I always find it funny (NOT) how people refer to everything as "the REAL world", you mean, the same world that the same stupid people over generations created as a standard? It always saddens me how most adults completely lack joy in their lives, and it seem like they are living a sacrifice instead

Its also annoying that adults tend to think they are all-knowing, and yet they should learn as much from children as children learn from them... If people kept a strong side of their childhood with them they would be alot happier

People and their problems... The world is what you make it to be... The REAL world sucks because no one does anything to change it, instead they just get used to it and take it in the ass through all of their lives, but then again, humans are idiots, so thats no surprise

My point is that if you want to have any fun (and I have a lot of fun) you have to work very freaking hard. And that very freaking hard work (like college, homework, jobs you hate to build up a rep to get a good job, etc) sucks. If you do not learn to deal with hardships and get over this everyone is out to keep me down mindset you will become like most of my highschool friends. They are all losers who can hardly exist on their own, let alone do things someone would find fun. I stopped calling them years ago when it was clear all they wanted to do was complain about how hard their life was. Me on the other hand worked my butt off and sucked it up. Now I can do mostly whatever I want and have fun. But still I have to suck it up. But I don't post the my boss hates me threads and complain about that saturday I was out fishing with my father and the servers went down and we had to drive the boat in so I could drive 100 miles back to the office to fix it. I sucked it up and did my job.
 

Bryophyte

Lifer
Apr 25, 2001
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Wow! A new whiny, snively, insolent, self-centered teenager! It's been so quiet around here without PAB and RyanSengara entertaining us.
 

Ruger22C

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Sep 22, 2006
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Originally posted by: Sinsear




Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
I am a 16/17 year old kid who is independent. When I say independent, I mean thinking wise and I can do anything that will please me.

Herein lies the problem; and it's a problem with alot of today's youth. You think you know everything and can do whatever you please without consequence. Grow up, respect your mother, and stop your ****** whining.

Amen.

 

Platypus

Lifer
Apr 26, 2001
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There's no way this is real, I wish I could punch you through the internet after reading this crap.