How can you tell when a girl is using you?

Lager

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Originally posted by: geckojohn
GIve us an example.

One girl, keeps asking me for math help and another girl is really nice to be but not when this guy is around.
 

johnjbruin

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when she cold heartedly dumps your lame @ss without any reason.
one eg. would be: she has a bf, they break up, she starts going out with you, saying that she likes you, old bf abd her get together after a month, you are history and you just go "WTF did I do?" and the answer is you didnt do anything, she used you.
 

freebee

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I was being used for sex once....by a fat girl....but thats ok. It beats the hand any day.
 

rh71

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Umm... when they show no interest in your interests or don't really care to get to know you... even though they continue to "talk" to you.
 

GtPrOjEcTX

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Originally posted by: coldcut
Originally posted by: geckojohn
GIve us an example.

One girl, keeps asking me for math help and another girl is really nice to be but not when this guy is around.
1) yup, being used.
2) nope, but you're just possible friend material.
 

OffTopic1

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You are not being used.

1. Not thing stopping you from saying no. It could be that you volunteered your service as an excuse to get to know her & is too chicken asked for a date, and now it is too late.

2. She like you, and now it is too late because of your lack of interest/ball to ask her out for a date.

 

MAME

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uh, you're being used for your math knowledge and the other girl likes that guy

you're screwed both ways
 

brigden

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Originally posted by: freebee
I was being used for sex once....by a fat girl....but thats ok. It beats the hand any day.

God, I admire your honesty.
 

DorkBoy

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Originally posted by: freebee
I was being used for sex once....by a fat girl....but thats ok. It beats the hand any day.

Ahhhh no, My hand is pretty good in "bed", and it's not disgusting to look at.
 

gururu

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If you aren't attracted to these girls, they can't really use you. If you have an attraction, ask them out as soon as possible. If they choke, get the heck out of there. Otherwise you will assume chump position.
 

stev0

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Originally posted by: DorkBoy
Originally posted by: freebee
I was being used for sex once....by a fat girl....but thats ok. It beats the hand any day.

Ahhhh no, My hand is pretty good in "bed", and it's not disgusting to look at.