Ugh.... I played it and gave it a fair chance.
I wasn't offended by the cursing but... I though the cut scenes were corny and the story SUCKED! But that's my personal opinion, I didn't even like most of the gameplay, I thought it was very annoying having to control the camera angle with the mouse while driving. I don't understand why everyone thought this game was so great.
I think I prefer GTA clones over the real thing, the only one I can say I really enjoyed was just the first city in Grand Theft Auto 2. GTA 4 looks cool though, maybe I'll like that.