Condo pros:
- Don't have to mow
- Don't have to shovel
- All siding & roofing is taken care of by association
- usually cheaper purchase price
Condo cons:
- association fees
- association rules that may be strict
- if you have a crappy snow removal or lawn care company you may end up doing the work yourself
- you have the possibility of having neighbors on either side of you, and possibly above and below you
- no back yard
- limited parking
House pros:
- backyard
- usually better parking
- can paint your house pink if you feel like it (assuming no community restrictions)
- no shared walls
- utlimately the most freedom
House cons:
- ALL repairs are done by you
- all landscaping and snow removal is done by you
- more expensive
Have you considered a zero lot line townhome?
EDIT -
http://www.rgiarbys.com/house/index.htm
That's a walkthrough of our zero lot line townhome. 1550 sq/ft, 3 br, 2bath, backyard, good price.