everyone is going to tell you to buy a house.
I think it depends on your lifestyle. if you have a stable job and a down payment/mortgage isn't going to put you at risk financially, I can see the appeal in buying a house. personally, I'm waiting to get married. I want it to be
our first house, rather than my wife moving into my house or vice versa.
if your more transient or don't have the money/desire to buy a house at this point in your life, go with an apartment.
there are downsides to apartment-living (mostly dealing with noisy neighbors), but it's nice to not have to worry about major household repair expenses, and if a job opportunity came up on the other side of the country, I could pick up and move pretty easily.
a happy-medium might be renting a house
