- Jun 8, 2000
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Short version of my story:
Met this girl at a party months ago. Said Hi to each other, and that was pretty much it. Another guy was hitting on her the entire night. Didn't see her again until this Friday night.
I arrive at the party, walk up the stairs, and then all of a sudden I see her. She throws herself at me (she actually remembers me), and remains physically attached to me for the remainder of the night. She whispers in my ear that she'd get with me if she didn't have a boyfriend.
Everybody at the party, once they see what's happening, starts warning me not to try to kiss her or anything because she has a boyfriend that she's been going out with for two years. I follow their advice, though the girl remains on my lap or in some way attached to me physically for the entire night.
After like 30 minutes at the party, she invites me to her birthday bash which is just like two weeks away. She asks for my phone number. I didn't have my wallet with my business cards on me at that second, so I didn't give it to her. A little later she asks again, and I run to my car and give her a card. I tell her to give me a call.
Later on in the night, late at night, she programs her phone numbers into my cell phone. I don't really remember how this happened, all I know is that in the morning I had her phone number (she was still sleeping when I left the house -- later on, during our phone conversation she says she wished I had woken her up to say goodbye).
So anyways, I wait a day, and then on Sunday night I work up the courage to call her. All my friend's told me not to, saying that if she remembered anything that happened that she would be pissed at me because she had a boyfriend.
I call. We talk for about an hour (could have easily gone onto 3 hours if she didn't have to go to sleep). Near the end of the conversation she asks me what I'm doing on Friday, and if I want to hang out with her. I say OK, she said she'd be in touch with me.
So, I'm in an interesting situation. She's turning 17, and she's been going out with the same guy for two years (eek!). Her BF is appearently a bartender or something, so he works on Friday and Saturday nights and he can't be with her. I'm older than her, but younger than her BF. I'm a lot more succesful in life though (drive a BMW, wear DKNY, etc.) which I know for a fact is attractive to women.
What do I do? Obviously there's mutual attraction. She remembered everything that happened that evening, and she didn't resent me or anything. She in fact invited me out (when my highest expectation for the phone call was an assurance that I would indeed be invited to her birthday bash where I could meet other hot chicks).
Advice?
Met this girl at a party months ago. Said Hi to each other, and that was pretty much it. Another guy was hitting on her the entire night. Didn't see her again until this Friday night.
I arrive at the party, walk up the stairs, and then all of a sudden I see her. She throws herself at me (she actually remembers me), and remains physically attached to me for the remainder of the night. She whispers in my ear that she'd get with me if she didn't have a boyfriend.
Everybody at the party, once they see what's happening, starts warning me not to try to kiss her or anything because she has a boyfriend that she's been going out with for two years. I follow their advice, though the girl remains on my lap or in some way attached to me physically for the entire night.
After like 30 minutes at the party, she invites me to her birthday bash which is just like two weeks away. She asks for my phone number. I didn't have my wallet with my business cards on me at that second, so I didn't give it to her. A little later she asks again, and I run to my car and give her a card. I tell her to give me a call.
Later on in the night, late at night, she programs her phone numbers into my cell phone. I don't really remember how this happened, all I know is that in the morning I had her phone number (she was still sleeping when I left the house -- later on, during our phone conversation she says she wished I had woken her up to say goodbye).
So anyways, I wait a day, and then on Sunday night I work up the courage to call her. All my friend's told me not to, saying that if she remembered anything that happened that she would be pissed at me because she had a boyfriend.
I call. We talk for about an hour (could have easily gone onto 3 hours if she didn't have to go to sleep). Near the end of the conversation she asks me what I'm doing on Friday, and if I want to hang out with her. I say OK, she said she'd be in touch with me.
So, I'm in an interesting situation. She's turning 17, and she's been going out with the same guy for two years (eek!). Her BF is appearently a bartender or something, so he works on Friday and Saturday nights and he can't be with her. I'm older than her, but younger than her BF. I'm a lot more succesful in life though (drive a BMW, wear DKNY, etc.) which I know for a fact is attractive to women.
What do I do? Obviously there's mutual attraction. She remembered everything that happened that evening, and she didn't resent me or anything. She in fact invited me out (when my highest expectation for the phone call was an assurance that I would indeed be invited to her birthday bash where I could meet other hot chicks).
Advice?