Thing with all the same sex issues, especially marriage, is that the issue "is" the issue.
Without the issue to bitch about, there is no longer any issue.
Take Iowa as example.
SS marriage is legal, has been legal since 2009, and you no longer hear one peep about SS marriage in Iowa. Never! Ever!
It's a huge non-issue ever since it was made legal.
So all this fuss about every SS issue boils down to simply all the fuss.
Once legalized, the fuss just goes away. Poof! Gone! Moot! No big deal.
So if those opposed to SS marriage and basic SS issues really want all this to just "go away", let the courts do their job. Legalize SS marriage, shoot down all the state bans, and so on and so forth, and all the fuss over the issue will never rear its ugly head again.
If the US supreme court legalized SS marriage tomorrow, the day after there would be absolutely nothing left to gripe about concerning any SS issue.
Everyone could calm down, wipe the sweat off their foreheads, get back to concerns within their own life, have a good nights sleep, and wake up the next day with any idea that anything had changed.
From then after the only time the issue of SS marriage or any SS issue would come into ones life would happen if and when:
Your child announces that he/she were gay.
You wife/husband announces that all along they have been gay.
You get an wedding invitation to that gay guy at work wedding ceremony.
You watch the Ellen show on TV.
Thats it.
Mail is still delivered to your house.
The sun still shines.
The sky is still just as blue as the day before.
You car still needs a tune-up.
You need to pick up more milk at the market.
And most of all, you can still entertain hopes at winning the Powerball.
(providing you purchase a ticket)
And THAT is the cold hard fact of legalized SS marriage throughout America.
Pretty boring, once all the fuss about all the fuss is no longer the fuss.