I like how gays like to pretend that heteros don't live in the same exact fucking world the gays do. We "breeders," like you like to insult us, live in the same world you do, walk down the same streets, go to the same stores, blah blah blah. Just because you find same-sex attractive doesn't change your world upside down.
Get a grip.
You don't HAVE to lead a life of secrecy. You choose to. Now stop choosing to be an idiot and just be yourself, all others be damned.
It's no different than a guy in junior high scared to talk to the girls in his class. Screw your balls on, dude. They're just other human beings. Don't treat them like shit and they won't treat you like shit.