Ok tried yet again tonight, now this isn't 100% sure fix but I've been fine for about 1/2 hr now so I thought it was worth posting, when we were looking through my network properties we got to network identification. And I had my pc named Daniel from my home network, well we changed it to ot038403984 or whatever the name they give you is and it has been ok since. They said in 98 you can't even get online without the right computer name so maybe that was causing my problems, I'm crossing my fingers though.