Originally posted by: alphatarget1
im 19.
i'm not surprised, it's not like my mom cares about us anyway. she has no friends and she's kinda a totalitarian figure.
Whoa there, sounds like you've got more than just a divorce on your hands.
I suspect your mom does care about you more than you know, but that for whatever reasons she hasn't been able to effectively demonstrate it to you.
Just tell you parents that if they split up, you INSIST on going to see a good counselor. The whole family should spend at least 6 months in therapy. Otherwise, nothing really changes or gets better.