I have been seeing this girl for a few months now (purely physical.) She is a cousin (well...), but she is HOT. It is just sex and we do date other people. I know that some of you may think it is gross, etc, but whatever. It's not like I grew up with her (we actually just met about 2 years ago. I am 19, she is 17.) At any rate, we have been keeping this on the hush for obvious reasons. However, one of my family friends has found out about it and dropped a bomb on me...
We are actually siblings. My mom gave her to her brother (my uncle) when she was born because she couldn't financially handle two children. We lived in different regions until recently and only knew about each other as cousins, having never actually met.
Do I end the relationship? It is just sex, but I know even this is frowned upon in Arkansas. Should I end it without telling her she is my sister? I don't want this information to ruin her. Do I just forget about it? Should I tell me mom I know that my cousing is really my sister?
We are actually siblings. My mom gave her to her brother (my uncle) when she was born because she couldn't financially handle two children. We lived in different regions until recently and only knew about each other as cousins, having never actually met.
Do I end the relationship? It is just sex, but I know even this is frowned upon in Arkansas. Should I end it without telling her she is my sister? I don't want this information to ruin her. Do I just forget about it? Should I tell me mom I know that my cousing is really my sister?