OK! Haven't solved my problem(s) yet but have some info. I loaded Zone Alarm 2.1.25 and Startupcop. If I wasn't married I'd be in luv

These are great little apps

Both are free for personal use.
Cop does exactly what it says, lets you determine what loads when windoz starts
Zone is even better. Lets you determine what apps access the internet.
And, checks for .vbs attachments!
If you haven't got these, get 'em. Small footprints, idiot proof and very functional.
I would rate them as useful as Motherboard Monitor, CPUIdle, mIRC, Napster, Napigator, Download Accelerator and your handy wav->mp3 converter!