Help me . . . . .

[NokiaDude]

I don't know what to do. My parents both hate me and they treat me like sh!t. I can't take it anymore. I've tried talking it out with my dad, telling him I'm burnt out but he doesn't care. My grades suck, I owe money to my friend and my dad and my mom is on my back every minute she can. I know I need help and I've tried talking to my parents to get my a counselor but they just plain don't care. Even when I went to the doctor with my mom, the doctor recommended a counselor, but does my mom care . . no. And my brother treats me like sh!t too. He's a year younger than me and he won't stop trashing my stuff. We share a room together and if he see's something of mine he'll trash it or stuff it under my bed. It's getting so frustrating. My dad amazes me by not acknowledging his anger management problem. Please, if anyone can help me out here.

 

[tweakmm]

How much do you owe to your friend and why?

 

[Encryptic]

I don't know what you can do, short of moving out. Sounds like a bad situation that's not going to get any better. Sorry to hear about it.

 

[NokiaDude]

Originally posted by: tweakmm
How much do you owe to your friend and why?

$45. Borrowed it from him.

 

[rudder]

How old are you?

 

[NokiaDude]

16

 

[Jmmsbnd007]

Beat your brother up.

 

[Josh]

Originally posted by: NokiaDude
16

That means you should still be in high school. If you parents are that bad, talk to someone in your school, a guidance counseler would be your best bet to goto first. She/He can probably help you with your problem, just explain to them exactly what you said to us and I'm sure they will find some way to help you. Being 16 with problmes like these, it's hard to find somebody to talk to and who will help out that's why your school is pretty much your only and best option. Use it wisely

 

[Rudee]

It's all part of being a teenager. Just keep your chin up and know that in the near future when you have a family of your own and a rewarding career, you will look back on those days and laugh.

Up until I was in grade 8, I was short and skinny. Man, did I hate life. I was picked on by my friends, brothers, sisters and schoolmates. I always wanted to be big and muscular like my Dad, but that'd didn't happen until my puberty kicked in and I started working out and filling out immensely. Now that I'm in my mid 30's with a excellent job, a good woman, and in the peak of health, I look back on those earlier days and laugh. You will too someday.

 

[Toasthead]

Dude. It sounds like the only solution is getting out of that situation. I would see if there is a friends you can crash at until you can find a place of your own. that is unless yer like 15 then I dont know what to do. Maybe call a counseling hotline on your own. They may be able to point you in the right direction.


Edit: Just saw that yer 16. I would call a counseling hotline and see what they say

 

[KGB1]

How bout quit spending time on the computer. That helped me out alot. I was lucky my family really tolerated me, specially my sister, she sometimes got angry. But mostly she stood up for me and helped get me a job and stay in school. I was on probation for 1 term, now I have a GPA of 3.3 Your family really doesnt HATE you but you might be giving htem good reasons to...

1. What is your job?
2. Do you spend all day at home?
3. Drugs? Alcogol? Smoke?
4. Better grades in school expected...

if you can't filfull those quotas, man parents can be a drag. Ask yourself.. do I want to lay down bricks/construction for the next 40 years or continue college and have a better life for yourself?

 

[NokiaDude]

1.Highschool Student
2.Yes, and it sucks.
3.No
4.~1.5Gpa