So my dad has been dating this woman for ~2 years. She makes efforts to spend time with me and I do not understand why. We are polite, cordial, she is nice to me (and I'd expect nothing less) but I am 23, I will likely be living somewhere else soon. (For school) I already live alone ~80% of the time, taking care of the house while my Dad is up at her house.
I do not see any reason to establish any type of relationship with her beyond being polite, cordial, and comfortable enough for her to be over here or what not.
This morning she left a note on the fridge saying "I am glad you came, I am looking forward to spending more time with you."
She is nice to me as I would expect, but why this effort to spend more time with me?
To some extent I inherently distrust her because I see a chance that our interests will conflict.
Edit: Note, some of this is venting, a result of posting in an irritated mood. The main point of this OP was to request ideas as to why she might be making the effort, to see if I am missing anything
I do not see any reason to establish any type of relationship with her beyond being polite, cordial, and comfortable enough for her to be over here or what not.
This morning she left a note on the fridge saying "I am glad you came, I am looking forward to spending more time with you."
She is nice to me as I would expect, but why this effort to spend more time with me?
To some extent I inherently distrust her because I see a chance that our interests will conflict.
Edit: Note, some of this is venting, a result of posting in an irritated mood. The main point of this OP was to request ideas as to why she might be making the effort, to see if I am missing anything