Help me interpret what this girl said

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Accipiter22

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Originally posted by: KingGheedora
me: do you think your parents would want you to marry out of love
me: or for security
her: for security
her: and i would rather marry for security
her: that much i cannot deny
me: at least you're honest about it
her: it's really just a question of when the fleeting side of me can calm down enough to appreciate security
her: there is this boiling dichotomy in me you know?
her: but ultimatley, i know that I am someone who needs to be taken care of
her: and that my caregiving ability stops short of the kitchen

So the part I'm a little confused about is the last statement. She likes to cook and is really good at it, which is why she brought up the kitchen thing. But from what I understand she is saying that she wants to marry a well off guy, but will not give physical affection. Did I interpret that correctly?

No pics, and I am not trying to get any from her.

so she's not your girlfriend even.

 

timosyy

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Dunno if its been covered cause I'm not reading 4 pages

"her: and that my caregiving ability stops short of the kitchen "

She is simply referring to an earlier point in the conversation. She's saying she isnt capable of providing "security" beyond the kitchen, ie. cook food for you, but can't provide money/physical security (like beat people up).

She's looking for a man who can do those things (bring in money, be safe around), and acknowledging that she would do the cooking and stuff.
 

WA261

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Originally posted by: timosyy
Dunno if its been covered cause I'm not reading 4 pages

"her: and that my caregiving ability stops short of the kitchen "

She is simply referring to an earlier point in the conversation. She's saying she isnt capable of providing "security" beyond the kitchen, ie. cook food for you, but can't provide money/physical security (like beat people up).

She's looking for a man who can do those things (bring in money, be safe around), and acknowledging that she would do the cooking and stuff.

Yes. Why in the fu*k did OP even post this? Loser talking to a chick he wants and......?
 

KingGheedora

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Oh, I'm KingGheedora. I am a loser. I really want to marry a woman who openly admits to wanting nothing but money. I want to ask her to stick out her left and and then tell her that I am going to do something. I'm going to put my hand on hers. I have no desire to gain an understanding of the minds of others. I waste my time talking to girls online whom I have never even met.

Get over yourselves.
 

Wreckem

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Originally posted by: hjo3
Sex isn't "caregiving." Also, what a whore. Literally -- marrying for "security" (e.g. financial reasons)? Come on.

I got news for you buddy, most women do this.
 

kamikaze27

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Originally posted by: Wreckem
Originally posted by: hjo3
Sex isn't "caregiving." Also, what a whore. Literally -- marrying for "security" (e.g. financial reasons)? Come on.

I got news for you buddy, most women do this.

I got news for you, most men allow women to do this, hence the above.
 

kamikaze27

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Originally posted by: lyssword
OP, you're an idiot, you should have asked her what it means, not atot..

Or maybe he should ask the drooping anatomy guy for some...
 

hjo3

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Originally posted by: Wreckem
Originally posted by: hjo3
Sex isn't "caregiving." Also, what a whore. Literally -- marrying for "security" (e.g. financial reasons)? Come on.
I got news for you buddy, most women do this.
I know -- that's one of the big reasons why I have a boyfriend. :p